First of all this is extremely rude. Second of all, what are you trying to achieve by asking this?
How are the men on this site losers? If that's what you think then perhaps you shouldn't be here. From what I've seen the men on this site are nice people who take time out of their day to give an honest opinion on a complete stranger's personal issue.
I find it fascinating this question was asked him anonymous. Not really and you don't call out specific users because you're you're not happy with yourself or others in might be a so like the psychological problem phenomenon where you're Affective forecasting the behavior of yourself onto on to other people people I hope you find yourself happy.