When I say attractive, I mean that you noticed people like you and tell you. Some people don't know they are. And how did you find out besides looking at a mirror. lol
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There's at least one person out there who's gonna find a given person attractive. Everyone attractive to someone.
People have found me attractive and a couple guys have felt that they were in love with me. But I consider myself attractive. And I have never been in a relationship. But I've never wanted one either.0
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Yep. I even modeled for a little while. I got compliments a lot in high school by older women but I brushed it off a lot because younger girls rarely complimented me. People my age would give me compliments too but any time it was about my appearance I assumed they were pitying me. When I went to college I started studying biology as a major and psychology and sociology for fun on the side. I also started to hang out with women (that I wasn't related too) in non school settings a lot more. I eventually realized that I'd been getting hit on by women almost my entire life but since girls my age aren't as vocally straightforward about it I had no clue what was going on. However I've still only had sex once. It was one of the most anxiety inducing experience of my life that ended with all of my biggest fears coming true (premature ejaculation, getting dumped soon after, STD and a pregnancy scare) Because of years of thinking I was undesirable I had extremely low self esteem and with all this happening the first time around dating became pretty much an impossibility for a while. I'm 22 now and last year was the first year I'd ever actually asked a girl for her number. Most of the time any girl who liked me had to do most of the work. For a long time I thought it was normal for a girl to just give you her number without asking for it. Due to gender roles most girls would assume I didn't like them and I often ended up alone. The girl I slept with tried for two years very aggressively before things started going anywhere and like all the other girls she left because she thought I didn't want to date her seriously. Honestly I just had no clue what to do. I'm a lot more confident now but still extremely inexperienced for a person my age.0