Apparently women get a flood of messages from thirsty guys, as a man, I can say that this is a rare event that I really don't mind, so I was wondering, from all the messages that you girls get, do you ever have one that you don't mind, say because you find him attractive or otherwise.
And just to clarify, I am talking about more flirty or complement type comments.
I don't send PM. There were a few times were I did get a PM from a girl, I replied because she had intention of just talking as friends. If it were something different from fried intention or asking for further help, then I'll be suspicious and wouldn't respond.
If they PM me, I'll probably only respond if we're friends or have interacted before. My time's too valuable to have awkward ass conversations with randoms or creeps. I might respond if someone is asking for help cause they have some problem though.
I don't mind getting messages from people to begin with. If a guy messages me and gives me a compliment I'm not just going to be rude and ignore him... The least I can do is say thanks in return but normally we end up having a conversation or becoming friends on the site.
Now as for sexual messages that's a different story 😒
I always get tons of messages... but lately i've been ignoring a lot of people cause i just don't feel like talking... but before i went into this 'i don't wanna talk to people' mood i'd react positively to anyone who PMed me & i didn't really care whether they were handsome or not... not interested in doing long distance relationships
I hardly ever initiate PMs with anyone on here (if at all.. has only happened about 4 out of the 80+ times that I've talked to somebody on here). When I do, I don't enter their inboxes "trying to flirt with them" like bruh it ain't that serious LOL. I only do that shit out in the open for the LULz of it.
Then again if I remember right, I did "compliment" 1 girl on here, but I said this shortly after "I'm not looking for a reply nor am I hitting on ya".
Shid that lead to me and her becoming really close on (off) here LOL. so hey I guess it was worth it.
I don't view site as a romantic site and I would only PM someone who PMs me first or someone I interacted with on the public forum - I think I only PMd a couple of people who I thought were interesting through stuff they wrote or their profile (In fact I can only remember 1 because I admired the way they expressed themselves)