It can be a bit cringey, yeah :/ Like I get that the young kids shouldn't put pictures up on here but c'mon, those 30+ GAGers should know better. They're adults, they should act responsibly. If it's just a plain comment like 'you look nice', it's okay, but when they start complimenting specific bits or sexualising them I'm like... you realise they're kids, right?
I agree and disagree. If the tone is overtly forward then anyone over the age of 20 would be creepy but if the person's responses are consistent and neutral across the board on girls of any age then I have no issue with it. The vast majority of How Do I Look questions are being asked looking for affirmation. If the tone of the response is worded correctly, affirmation can be given on a neutral level to girls of any age but as you pointed out most especially Under 18s. In conclusion I am somewhat in favour of option A, don't believe option B for a second but feel there is room for an option C that said depending on the tone of the response.
GaG doesn't care about older people perving on younger users. It has told me that in messages a few times.
Under age girls in their bra's is fine, that's is perfectly acceptable. But don't you dare post an image of a baby with a nipple in it's mouth - that's DISGUSTING and could offend people, but yeah, join our kiddy fapping site. They even have kiddy fans as mods.
No. It's the girl's choice to put up a rate me question, and the male gagers are just doing what this site is suppose to do ; giving answers. You can't just avoid all under 18 questions just because they're not "legal". This is a site for all ages (almost). If 14 year olds doesn't feel comfortable around adults then they shouldn't be on here. Or they shouldn't ask questions like that.
Ya but that's old men, they hit on everything that moves. I go to the gym in the morning when it's mostly old people and if I had a penny for inappropriate comment I get... But they're so old, it's almost adorable again. At 40 though it's just weird
Depends on the context, if they reply in a sexual manner it's not acceptable social behavior.
If they consider their health, it's perfectly okay.
And usually people at the age of 16 are fully developed, so there is not pedophilic in their interest, although they should refrain from any sexual conduct as it is not appropriate for someone of that age to engage in such activities especially with someone so far out of their age group, so yes it is socially unacceptable to rate the "beauty" so to speak of a minor whilst one is an adult, regardless of which it is unacceptable.
As a 30+ year old guy, I can tell you that when I answer such questions, I can tell 16 year old people they have attractive whatevers, and *still* think they're ickle little children. Just because someone's attractive doesn't mean I'm at all interested. Ew.
That said, some girls like older men, and I know a stable and healthy couple where she's what, 23, and he's 50 some? The flip side is, I know another such couple that's NOT healthy. So. It all depends, but I'm not going to immediately judge people. I *will* look more closely at such relationships, because the chance of it being creepy is higher.
The point being, some young women here might want all the "you're attractive" they can get, similar age or no :p
Or maybe they are innocently commenting on the photo because the girl was asking for an opinion?
Usually, a girl posts a photo because she feels insecure and is looking for someone to be nice to her. So is it really a problem if a guy -- who by the age of 30+ should understand that the girl is probably in desperate need of encouragement -- says something simple like "Yeah, you're pretty :)"
Honestly, chill out. Being a SJW is really pathetic, I've got to say.
I mean you're only a couple years younger than the 30+. It's not like you'd be in any different boat from them if you were commenting on girls rate me pics. Hell I don't even do it because I'd find it inappropriate for me to rate them and I'm at least 3-4 years younger than you.
I don't see anything wrong with. They were young once upon a time and they still know what was attractive at that age. If they make sexual comments then that's definitely an issue
TBH, it makes me cringe when people over about 20 do it.
I don't think I've ever given a rating to an under 18, at least not if i realized.
A few times where it seems they really were worried about their looks, i said something like 'you're above average looking for your age, you should be confident your looks are a plus for you, not a drawback', something like that.