It seems that mainly guys in this site get so uptighty whenever I voiced my opinion on these two topics. I have my own values and ideas. But all of the sudden it's an argument and a couple of them already get overly defensive and started downvoting me.
I do however, believe in exceptions to every rule. For instance if a 3 year-old kid ran over the over the street and nearly got hit by a car, I would probably be mildly tap him/her on the hand but it would be more like ''Don't ever do that again, you have any idea how I got scared of losing you'' and then sterning explain him/her why not. But apart from that freaky, scary moment I don't believe in spanking a child.
As for the overly debated ''should I hit women'', as I've mentioned there are exceptions. For instance if someone is holding a knife near towards where I am, then yes I would probably punch the opponent, regardless of gender. But it seems that those guys downvoting want me to agree with there ''yeah it's equality bitches, slap and get slapped back, hell yeah''. I disagree with that stance but seems like I can't even voice my opinion.
I'm called every single name by them for simply voicing my opinion in a calmed manner and saying why I don't agree and how I believe there are exception to the rule but just spanking a kid because that's the way it should go and hitting back for the sake of equality isn't right.
Most of these guys are bitter trolls who are bitter for being rejected by women. But it's like a vicious cycle because women don't like bitter men. Especially not against their own gender.
I'm all for equality. And for equality sake, yes. You should be able to hit whoever hit you first.
Sometimes it feels that some of these guys just want equality to be able to hit women back with no repercussions. Of course not all, and I'd be willing to bet not even most. But there are a few bitter, vocal men who would just love to hit women it seems.
I get downvoted for this all the time. I don't think anyone, male or female, should hit anyone back unless your life is in direct danger. If they slap you, I don't think you should slap the other person back. Be the bigger person and walk away. I know it's hard, but an eye for an eye leaves the world blind. Now, if you're cornered and they won't stop punching and beating you, that's a different case. You have no choice but to hit back to escape the situation.
People here are crazy and violent. I've grown up in environments like these, and it helps no one.
Some people here can't take opinions different than theirs... actually, some people downvote things for no reason or for stupid reasons. I'll give an example: I answered 2 questions, a long time ago, about sexual orientation. When I said exactly this: "I am completely straight", I got downvoted by females 2 times. It seems that there are women here who want to me to be gay xD
This was just an example, I was downvoted by both, men and women when I said nothing offensive or weird. Just ignore these downvotes.
Okay pathos is clearly in vain as you made up your mind.
When you spank a child, they don't learn "Doing X is wrong". They instead learn "My parents are violent and I should be afraid of them". A parent is supposed to be the first person for you to trust and the last person to associate with danger. Don't mistake fear for respect, they're completely different.
A more effective approach is to install positive connections with good behavior as that translates to "If I do X, my parents will be happy."