I woke up this morning with my romantic status the last thing on my mind. I logged on GaG for a catch up but a few questions about valentines, getting over exes , meeting people etc and I find myself thinking "Geez, I feel a bit lonely today" Anybody else get like that while logged on to site occasionally or am I just having another mid life crisis?
No I don't but then I do socialise a lot and I am relatively recently single and quite enjoying myself at the moment.
However, I have felt lonely in the past and it looked like everyone was either in a relationship, in a "something" or hooking up with someone and I felt a little left out. But then all the drama begins because they think he's cheating, he's not paying as much attention as he used to, do you think she still wants to be with me, I wanna get out because she's getting on my nerves...
Be thankful that your romantic life is drama free because no doubt you will meet someone you like and then you'll be posting question on here like "I met a really nice lady but she ,,,, ?"
I think it's normal to feel a bit lonely about relationships since that's a big motivator for a lot of us to get into relationships. You just have to decide if it's one of those passing days or one of the changing days.
I think it's also really good you're around KDA! You're a really good guy to help the people who are upset about not having a valentine put things in perspective and that's way more important than your relationship status any day
I dont know about you but if it werent for G@G I'd feel much more lonely haha. Why dont you go on Tinder to find a nice girl, who is also lonely, to see the new Deadpool movie together on the 14th? Okay I know Tinder might not be the right place to look but there are nice people even there, and I think that nowadays online dating is the fastest way to meet someone. As for me, here are my plans for V day media.giphy.com/media/q01WJwWC2yR1u/giphy.gif
Hey buddy, welcome to the club. G@G is definitely the wrong place to be if you'd rather concerntrate on the personal aspects of your life. Sure yeah. But to answer your catharsis, yeah, you ain't alone. When life's good its great otherwise we just remember how mortal we are. Sometimes you just gotta think 'what am I doing here advising someone I know almost nothing about, somewhere far away and probably someone I may never meet. I got to get my stuff together and live it out'. But sometimes when nothing else is going and you need a place to belong. Sure G@G is as welcome as any. You'll always find someone with a misfortune here. Nothing like empathy to raise your spirits eh?
Every now and then... but then i remember that things are about to change globally, and the rules of the game are going to be altered. Many of the people who are seemingly at the top (especially a lot of women) will be brought down, and a lot of people who are at the bottom will be brought up. A lot of people in relationships at the moment can't afford to be in one, have rushed into hooking up with the closest person to them in order to avoid being alone, vs searching outside of their comfort zone (work/school) to find someone that actually compliments their personalities best. A lot of things are going to change in the coming years, and i can't wait.
I don't feel bad. I understand how this impacts more younger people. They think they should have a boyfriend or girlfriend, they feel the same pressure we older ones do, but we can rationalize and be more indifferent to them. So it's worse for people around 16 and 23.
But yeah, can hapeen. Now, You will not see that only on GaG, give it more time and it will be everywhere, tv, radio, all web, stores.