So this will probably get removed, but I'm a 14 year old girl (obvi) and I have a lot of question about sex. A LOT. But everytime I ask a remotely sexual question it gets removed... I really want to know "what does sex feel like?" "What method of birth control is best?" "Should I use both the condom and the pill?" "Should I shave my pubic hair?" I really want to know, but every time I ask these questions, they get removed and I get a warning... PLEASE HELP!
Generally our guidelines will tell you that anything beyond what you'd learn in Sex-ed, is out of limits. Sort of like an attempts at preventing underage people who doesn't want to/shouldn't see those things.
Many times, it's simply just your use of words as the gentleman @HandsomeRaj said, How to and How do I will usually get removed. ^.~
lol, i don't understand why those simple questions get removed but ok... - for me, It feels amazing being penetrated, especially if you hit the right spot. It is the position and the rythmic thrusting that make sex great for women. The first time it hurt me a little, a lot for some girls, I was already broken in so it didn't bother me too much but it stretches you out... And that could feel like burning at first. - i go on the pill. it's more safe for me and my boyfriend. he doens't like to wear a condom and i don't like the feeling neither... - i shave mine, it's just a preference. It's not wrong or good if you shave or not.
It's normal at your age to be this curious but don't freak out about it.
topics pertaining to sexual relations, when asked by a minor, are more likely to be hidden if the question asker is asking how to perform in sexual relations and such:
Adult Topic – These are posts that contain overly sexual content posted by users under 18. Our members must be 18+ to ask “how to” sexual Questions. Posts that provide too many sexually graphic details by a member who is under 18 are removed for their protection. This is sexually related content that would not be presented in a high school Sexual Education course. For example, for those under 18, a Sexuality Question such as, "Why do guys get pleasure from nude pics?" is fine while "Best way to turn on a guy friend?" is not.
as long as you remain within the guidelines you should be fine.
You can ask sex questions but you can't ask how to do certain sexual details. If you're asking about birth control then that's fine, sex feels different for everyone. Birth control methods vary from condoms, pills, IUD's etc. Usually its common to get on the pill when you're young. Your pubic hair is nothing of a concern and you should only be the one to decide what to do with it.