Maybe I'm just overreacting but I know I'm not the best looking or have the best body. But I was never that insecure to take half naked pics and upload them on social media to ask if I'm dateable or not. Like, c'mon it was never that serious.
And to be honest, most of the people that have asked a question like that wasn't even bad looking, so I'm wondering why they even felt the need to ask?
Are you so into yourself that u need someone to compliment you every five minutes just to feel good?
Did you have a bad experience in your life that makes you use your body in order to ask about getting dates, or if you're worth having sex with?
Like, what the heck is wrong with people?
I've literally seen BBW (big beautiful woman) who were super confident with themselves but never posted online to ask others opinions. Than you have skinny twigs with a nice little six packs, whose like, "Am I pretty enough to get a date?" "Is my body sexy enough to have sex with"?
"Do you guys think I'm pretty"?
Yes, your beautiful. You body is nice. But that self esteem is too low. And using your body to gain some is not going to work. Have some morals.
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Anyone feeling (even a little) depressed and lonely goes through a period of self examination. The focal question is "will anyone ever want me?" So they go through a period of questioning asking about boobs, dick size, ass, back acne, 'rate me,' weight, shaving below, swallowing vs spitting, six-pack abs, circumcision . . . . and on and on.
I'm not immune from this line of self questioning. But I don't dwell there. My own self worth comes not from others' opinions but from my faith that tells me I am a child of "the King," "fearfully and wonderfully made" "in His image" and I'm of immeasurable worth. Were I the only person alive He would still have gone to the cross for me. I strive daily (often only feebly) to live the life He unfolds before me.
Knowing I'm His and He has my back, I can go about life with full confidence in any situation.1