www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1356742-why-should-i-we-approach-you-girls = question and @dodgersgm said something that I never thought about "The flip side to that coin is that, being a woman, you basically are told to sit back and just wait until the right type of guy falls into your lap. Basically, you're told NOT to be proactive in finding love. It's not difficult to imagine that being equally infuriating, albeit for different reasons. "which changed my mind on the whole topic...^_^
Yes, there are a few very smart girls here on GaG and some very wise men that have given me some useful insight worthy of noting. It's actually astounding how short the list is, considering almost 7 years of visiting the site.
The majority of insight here is crap. Although most people mean well, it's just hard to extract value when there is no benefit of tone, physical cues, and real-time dialogue to dig deeper into what they are saying.