Seriously since the time I've been on gag. I've noticed such a strong hate people have towards the opposite gender. Though this year I've noticed this hate becoming even worse. From the questions I've seen though. It seems like men have the most extreme hate I've ever seen. I'm just wondering what the fucking hell is up with this shit? This kind of thing makes your head spin and just stop caring that they hate you with a great passion.
It's easier to blame an entire gender for all of our shortcomings instead of facing them head on. Judging oneself honestly and without reservation is an incredibly difficult thing to face. None of us are perfect and nobody will appeal to everyone and that's okay.
I think more people need to seriously ask themselves "Would I date me? Would I want to have sex with me?" If you're answer to both of those questions is a hard no then you need to work on yourself whether it be physically, mentally, emotionally, or all three.
We are all capable of loving and being loved but nobody DESERVES it simply for existing. That's a pill that is difficult for a lot of people to swallow.
Most of the "hate" stems from all the ignorance, poor assumptions, and misunderstandings about the opposite gender that so many people have.
Let's face it: our society does not make it a priority to teach us anything (useful) about the opposite sex or about relationships. We go to school and learn about all kinds of important things, yet personal relationships - which is perhaps THE most important thing we have in life - are virtually ignored. And it's clear that "letting people learn on their own" is a disaster of a plan.
One of the main reasons I'm here, and why I write long answers instead of one-liners so often, is that I try to help the sexes understand each other. Neither gender is "bad" or "better than the other", but we absolutely ARE *different*, yet we are often taught that we are the same. No wonder people are confused! Radical Feminism especially has tried to teach people that there is zero difference between the sexes, but that's a bunch of crap. There are big differences, and not just the physical ones, and if you don't understand that, and if you can't put yourself in the shoes of the opposite gender and see things from their perspective, you're never going to have successful relationships.
Knowledge is power and understanding leads to success. Sadly, some folks simply don't want to learn anything, because it would force them to change their minds and their set way of thinking about the world - and they can't have that!
That's because they're sexist. Why are they sexist? Because it's easier to blame the mystical "The Other Sex" than to introspect and realize they don't like you because you're apparently legitimately and objectively unlikeable as a human being, lol.
Not you personally. Some people don't get that this "you", isn't actually *you*. Hopefully *you* get what I mean.
I totally hate you, you non honey eating person... Down with honey hatters! Down with honey hatters! Down with honey hatters! Bring the bees back to work! Down with honey hatters! Down with honey hatters!