? I have been on this website for two days and it is clear to me that the vast majority of people do not want to hear the truth. I give them a straightforward common sense realistic answer (and others do the same) and the reply is, "but it's more complicated than that. You see his cousin's boyfriend text me Thursday before his uncle's brother emailed his sister. So he couldn't be using me. I'm so confused." That is the response I see all too often in just two days. Too many people here are melodramatic. 25-year-old guys acting like 14-year-olds and same goes for the girls. It's my opinion that people are bullshitting themselves.
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If people wanted the truth they would probably find it themselves. It is usually staring them right in the face. Mostly when people ask for advice they want you to validate their delusion.
The truth isn't hard to see, you just have to want to see it more than you want anything else. Almost no one wants that. If you had a magic mirror that showed you the truth about yourself how many people would like what they see?1
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