I answered one question about fetishes and got messages from rather regular users on here being to be creepy and this is not first time, I can even show you them in messages if you like and they are more of regular users on here that pretend to act less creepy. Why are most guys here so depressed, desperate and ready to do anything for girl? This one guy started acting creepy and when I stopped replying. He asked me if I wanna see his dick? Wtf and he is very active user on here too that didn't sounded like that. Why? Why do creepy?
Why are guys on here so desperate and creepy?
What Guys Said 40
Website forums are populated with most of the same people that you'd actually encounter out in the world - EXCEPT that you're more likely to NOT have the most popular, most attractive people here, because they're too busy living their lives. So, you get the normal cross-section except less of the "top-end".
Obviously, there are plenty of desperate, creepy guys in real life, right? So that means you're going to get them here too. Then, the anonymity of the Internet is going to let many of those creepy guys be much more forward and direct than they normally would be, because they are insulated from the consequences of their actions.
Next, these guys are acting from a MALE mindset and perspective - not realizing that women think and work very differently, and have different priorities. In one of the comments, you mentioned not "begging guys to see your boobs or vagina" - well, now many complaints do you think you'd get if you DID do that? Likely none (from guys, anyway), and lots of grateful and happy guys checking out your pics. That's because guys LIKE naked pics and don't need an emotional attachment in order to enjoy them and want them. (Most) girls DO need an an emotional attachment to enjoy a dick pic - they only want to see THEIR guy's dick, and others give them the creeps. These desperate guys don't understand that - they assume that girls work the same way as they do, and will be turned on by random dick pics and such. The fact that a small percentage of girls ARE turned on by them and respond positively to them only reinforces that idea for these guys - they completely ignore the fact that MOST girls are repulsed, and it just becomes a numbers game for them.
Here's the bottom line:
- Only a small percentage of guys do this stuff, but when there are 400,000 regular site users, half of which are men, 20 or 30 guys is a tiny percentage of that total, but to YOU, a single individual, it seems like a lot. It isn't.
- This is a site that specifically talks about sex and relationships, so sexual subjects and people interested in sexual subjects are going to be drawn here even more than an average web forum. You have to accept that additional risk/annoyance when you come here or any site like this.
It's a shame indeed, but what you can do, is:
Profile>My Settings>Privacy Settings>Allow messages only from people I follow.
It let's you pick adn choose who can and who can't message you..
unfortunately, it also shuts out genuine people from messaging you.
Just ignore them.. or try to.1
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That seems odd. Dot get me wrong it's normal on any sight to find creepy people hell even on this sight o have found people with obsessive behavior, creepy behavior, stalker behavior. It's not that guys are like that in general but you have to keep in mind this sight is all over the world so odds are your finding the world's creepers here and that extends to many women I have found with the same traits. Dealing with those things are a simple reality of being online it sucks that it happens but it is a reality that comes with scocial constructed sights like this that run on societal opinion and structured so that opinion may be shared openly. The best thing you can do is ask them to be more respectful of you and if they choose not to then block them. It is interesting to see it though so common place, but as I said in a sight that is structured on open communication it's bound to happen and we as people simply need to learn to handle the situation in the proper and often most simple way.0
This site sets th... *This is about as far as i got before i got forcefully redirected to a casino website on the mobile version of this site*.3
I mean, I would be normal. But then the girls here are of such high stock, such quality, that I just can't help myself ;)0
Haha, I don't know what guys get from internet messages and nude pics from random girls. I think its just a fun thing to do. Like its a game.
Youtubers I watch have said 17 year old kids send them dick pics. When they open and close the message, the 17 year old kid sends a another message " HAHA, you saw my dick!"0
Think they come from a creep forum. I answered a similar question about fetishes and the asker messaged me about it. Got creepy really fast lol0
Lets publicly shame them! 😈0
You made the decision to message someone through here. Kinda expected from most guy on here. That's why they go anonymous. If you don't care enough say their user names through a common post. All you girls should do this to these desperate guys.0
Lack of positive female attention/interaction growing up would be my guess0
Because people are like tha, and they don't have balls to tell that to girls they know. The most "creepy" I will get is when I publicly tell somebody they're beautiful, when I really mean it.0
why can't u just say no and forget about it?
he was just asking , he didn't force u
maybe he was horny and bored.
Make your profile private0
do you really think guys that are successfully with girls comes to this site?0
Beware a man with nothing to lose.0
Tell us his name don't be shy. u made a post about it might as well tell us.
If u don't tell us of didn't happen.0
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What Girls Said 17
I've experienced a lot of creepiness on this site too, but think of it in retrospect; this is a community where sexuality is openly discussed, so naturally that inspires the perhaps more desperate individuals to flock here as a means of passively fulfilling their perversions. The internet is a beautiful thing for such folks because there is no direct repercussion for them acting like sleazebags.1
It's the Behind the Scenes Not to be Seen Behind the Computer Curtain.
I have found that there have been a few Creeps in the time I have been on here, dear, For over two years. I have even Allowed some, who at the time, I did not know what they were all about, On my celly and They either Sent Pix of Dicks or Turned out to be Some Sort of More... El Creepo.
Good luck And after awhile, You will just Flow with Joe. xx
I ask myself the same thing all the time. ALL THE TIME. The best thing to do is be LOUD about it. Flag their profiles and message all the admins you have the patience to deal with.
Don't ignore the creepy little bastards. Tell them to get the fuck out of your inbox and don't talk to them nicely. They like to say bullshit like "i don't know girls don't like me until they say so" so be crystal clear.
Heck even PM me or anther person on here you trust to help you get rid or them or help you send the message that they need to GO AWAY.0
Because most people on here are anti-social losers who don't know how to interact with people in real life, so they act out on their urges.1
I totally know what you mean! The joys of anonymity, brings out their pent up inner creep.1
This place has a lot of degenerates here.1
Some people on here don't know how to interact with people so they act on their urges is of the Internet. When I first made my account here, I got my fair share of creepy messages and because of it, I rarely message anyone and keep followers number low, and only people I know. If it wasn't for the xper points, I would be long gone.0
Yea I feel ya on that. You just gotta tell it to their face that that's not what you're looking for or you block em.1
To me, guys on gag are just harmless and curious, rather than "desperate and creepy"0
The Internet is always full of creeps0
Soceity is fucked and messed up, who cares anymore, morals values, all out of the window now. Its all about fucking, sleeping around, lying, hurting. I wish it was like the old days1