It seems like the girls on this site get creeped on more. Messaging girls on this site is irrelevant to me cause it's not a dating site and I'm 6'9 so that will scare them off. It will scare off the dudes too lol. I wouldn't mind if anyone messaged me first though.
I don't, unless I've talked to them on here before. And I can definitely testify that I did get quite a lot of creepy messages on here regarding various fetishes but also just people who apparently enjoyed to insult me for no particular reason before I went private.
Sure I have I'm friends with a few members of the opposite sex on here, and I've had quite a few message me, so I talk with em, I talk with both men and women on here, and unless they give me a reason not to, I give most people a chance.
No, I'm here to pass time and give advice. Nothing else. It's not that I don't like talking to people but some guys send really weird messages... Most of the time I don't even respond to those. But I don't mind if someone whose question I commented on wants to discuss the topic further and sends a private message. Overall, I think I initiated a conversation once and it was with a guy who commented on one of my questions
Guys do... and I usually don't respond if it's just those, "Hi" or "Hi, how are you?" messages. I've only messaged a handful of guys (about 2 or 3, actually) here to discuss certain topics further (so we don't spam the question/post page) or to ask them for advice/opinions.
I don't message people first usually but I will respond to the opposite sex if they message me and ain't creepy about it. I don't message everyone though cause I get too many messages so it's kinda hard to keep up with.
No, I played with messaging here and other sites at first but got yelled at by a few guys for not being available 24/7 and harassed badly for wanting more than friendly chatting once so I ditched that.
I don't message anyone and I don't answer anyone who messages me.
Yes I do but only the good ladies I am familiar with. I noticed the only reasons I ever message random girls here is when I want to know what anime their profile picture is from, if they have one such picture.