I find often that when guys and girls have a opinion about an issue that pertains to their gender, the other gender gets automatically offended by it and makes blanket statements about ALL women or ALL men. Are they bitter about men/women from past experiences? Do they truly HATE all men/women? What's the deal people?
Cause they feel better about themselves if they put the opposite gender beneath them, if they make them look worse.
I've asked questions dedicated to one gender and there's always people that comment "well, girls/guys do this too". That wasn't the question, the question was about that gender, stick to what was asked.
Many people here are way too bitter towards the opposite gender.
I think many of the people who are guilty of turning a perfectly civilized discussion into them being on the defensive and throwing out complete generalizations and insults against an entire sex because they're basing their opinion is fueled completely by bitterness following having been rejected a few times, as opposed to a logical argument. To them, it's easier to crucify and entire sex for the actions of a few select people instead of realizing that perhaps, any shortcomings were in their own court.
Isn't a civilised discussion basically a debate though? I dont think there is anything wrong with asking questions about someone's opinions, unless your intent is to simply state something and declare it gospel - which there are places that dont allow opinions to be posted where people can do that.
As for on here, you have people who are open-minded and consider both sides argument and you have those who refuse to see it any either way. As long as it doesn't devolve into mud slinging and trolling, it's good that people disagree on things.
I hate to say it but this place is getting depressing, it sucks we all can't share anything without it becoming political or sexism debate. I'm getting to the point that I really don't want to share anything on here anymore.
I've had much the same experience as you describe and especially as @AleDeEurope describes with the "girls/guys do this too" thing.
Gender can be a very charged and sensitive issue. I won't lie, it's pretty annoying to me too when I see the girls trying to get at guys while they pretend they don't, and crying when guys do it to them.
However, there are situations where the other gender IS wrong, and they just don't like hearing it. It doesn't make a girl right just because other females come to vote her up against the guy, and it doesn't make a guy right just because he wants to answer first and beat the girls to the punch.
Wellletsbe honest.. If we all had perfect relationships we wouldn't be here... Yes sometimes people here can get emotional and respond that way.. But tjays also the whole point of this site.. Sometimes a little conflict and anger can be helpful in understanding each other
hun you gotta understand we live in a day where people try to decide whats right and wrong
and they are so wrong in so many ways cause when people try to decide whats right and wrong
then there is no right and wrong cause no one is better than the next person
its not just sex wars, its people wars too. i said that steph curry was overrated the other day and some jackass said he disgreed, started attacking me. i get that people have their own opinions but dont start attacking me if you dont agree with me
that is because women won't accept the issues that pertain to their gender. They won't accept responsibility I mean, like cheating, lying judging looks.
Yes I totally agree. I once made a my take about how I prefer the nice guys over the stereotypical bad boy and I was told I made the my take in an attempt to seem less narrow minded and was called a shallow whore. I may very well leave after I redeem all the points I can.
Some people simply truly do not have the social skills or communication skills to have an open, honest dialogue where they exchange their thoughts without trying to turn it into some huge, draining, extensive debate that becomes all about some pathetic urge to stroke their ego. Conversations tend to be fruitless, unproductive, and centered around ego/self-absorption when the other person only acts like there's some big, shiny trophy at the end of the talk.
It's impossible to have a debate with opinion online without triggering or pissing someone off. People online are honest
While many people are agreeing with out of the bat, I think you should be providing some examples of when that happens. Most sex opinions/ discussions are rarely civilized to start with.