I probably fall into that camp of traditional as that is how I was raised (mom and dad married young). The kids all divorced except me.. never married... and I don't understand the "open", hookup, swinger, date/screw 3 people one time, etc.. mindset.. especially x relationships at one time.. the others I kinda get. I mean, I don't understand the person emotionally how it is possible.
I'm not "conservative" in that I accept what people as they are (may not sound like it), but my perspective says there is something up (life, emotional wounds, media programming, etc..) unles I find a better answer and I am seraching for one. so I post for people to look more closely at how they are living. When I post, it is because I don't undersatnd them or want to answer their question from my viewpoint.
I went here as part of educational process to answer some questions about relationships after a LTR one that was bad that I didn't undersand (I was clueless and wounded) and an internet flake out... primarily should I do this sex before marriage, how should I do this, what is going on... things seem different and way too hard. I found my own problems burried deep that we fucking me over for all my life in all aspects of it!
I see too many people suffering around me in nearly ever relational scenario so I want to understand set about fixing it (I'm a guy for darn sakes, that is what we do;). I don't buy hook line sinker the church message on this and trying to figure it out.
I'm forming my opinions on these issues, not rock solid yet.
I also think that your type, I'm not sure what word to use... I think it is the same as the "free love" in the 60's or some flavor of that, are out there but they aren't as vocal, probably because they are getting more action than the rest of us so don't have time to blog and are casual laid back in mindset.. they don't care... lol with tears! haha.
It could be there are a lot more of us in society. I don't know... My first exposure on this site was it was very raw and not traditional... e. g. hookup this hookup that. so maybe they bailed out cause us conservatives are here annoying them with your restrictive behavior? We suck don't we? ;) more LOL.
I've communicated with some people that I really like... funny how you get a sense of people over messaging. Some I continue with. You would be a fun person to better undersatnd, that's why I follow. Fun to meet as well.., seriously, just talk to and soak in where you are coming from.