So a lot of guys on this site think they know what women want better than women know it themselves, but it's really the opposite. The majority of the guys here are clueless when it comes to women. It really seems like they haven't ever spoken to a woman outside the internet.
Well, I think GaG has a very diverse collection of men. Some are hands down awesome guys that are hopefully going to hit the jack pot in the dating world and in real life. Others have little experience and try to navigate the what ifs in whichever way seems best. Then we have those bitter woman hating guys, quite a lot, who swarm GaG with terrible 'opinions' and I can only hope they are trolling.
Its because women often lie about what they want, because they are afraid of being judged. If we grow up around women that keep saying "I don't care about looks or money. I just want a nice guy that treats me right." Yet their dating history doesn't reflect that to be true, then clearly we can not take their advice seriously. The politically correct answer about what a woman wants does not reflect reality.
I am not saying women are more shallow than men, or bashing women in any way. I am saying men need to know what women are actually attracted to, so he knows what traits to develop. Yet currently women are afraid of being shamed for being honest. They could get called sluts, if they admit they care about looks, they get called gold diggers if they admit to caring about his job. The only thing women can say, is that they want a "nice guy". Hence why there are so many nice guys, that haven't worked on developing any other traits, and don't understand why women don't want them. This means, that often the advice from man about women, will be better than the advice from a woman about women.
Its not like i don't know what women want... its not like i haven't spoken to women outside the internet... Its not like i wasn't raised around a ton of women... its not like i don't know what women look for... its not like i don't know women like and dislike...
... its just that... ... i just don't give a fuck... 😎 I dont conform to all the "rules", "roles", and "expectations" which were made up by women anyway for men to follow. Im a being, not a puppet. Women always say "why can't you just accept me the way i am"... I say the same thing right back Every Time. Im this way, if she doesn't like it, she can walk.
Because women don't want them, so they make up some garbage about it being money/looks/height/players - when in actual fact it's their defeatist attitude and crap personality. Oh it can never be something wrong with THEM, it has to be an external influence they somehow have no control of.
I usually talk from experience, and I have plenty for being a 20 y/o, given that I started earlier than most guys. So far I've been pretty accurate, and in real life it shows cause results don't lie.
But you're right, many guys here know nothing about girls, but they still talk as if they know all. I wouldn't take anons seriously, since they tend to just be trolling, but others simply believe they know, and others just say what they've heard others say.
when it comes to attraction, men must always take men's advice. The rules are different for the genders and when a woman gives her advice it's from her perspective which is different from a guys perspective. So it won't work. A successful guy has to give advice to males.
Then the other thing. What women (and men) say and what they do are two different things. So women can say they don't like gold digging for example, but you see all these rich old dudes with hot babes. So yeah, again, sometimes a woman doesn't know how it works from a male perspective.
But this is just for attraction/relationship advice.
wow that´s very insulting and generalizing. i feel offended and i strongly disagree with your implicated claims.
1. most guys come here to learn about women, therefore claiming that they know about them is very questionable.
2. there are stereotypes and things lots of people know. especially when it comes to sexual stuff, women tend to be less informed, cause most of them fear the "slut" stigma. therefore a guy could know a lot about girls, simply cause he cares tries to gather knowledge.
3. "men on here are clueless" no we aren´t. women are just humans so we can of course know how you feel. and in case we don´t, we come here and ask.
oh yeah and assuming that most guy on here never talks to women outside of the internet is like me assuming every girl on here is a crazy cat lady and never had to deal with men in their life... isn´t exactly nice, is it?
Because women always say they want something then go after the complete opposite or how they don't care about something like money when they clearly do. After a while you just stop taking what they say for granted and judge by their actions.