It seems like that whats more important in this site! I read all the time. " I am a virgin and I am 22 and blah blah... but I am afraid to talk to girls" Come on Gagers! If you like someone face your fears... Are you so afraid of someone saying no... U just have to do it. if it work, Great! If it doesn't oh well!
Most Helpful Guy
Because it's all in their heads and minds. The harsh truth in reality is that relationships don't exactly last "forever" or "til death do us part", but I guess not too many people had their reality check yet or haven't really looked deeper into it yet.
All those horny, sexual attraction, lust, infatuation, desire or whatever the fuck anyone wants to call them, isn't exactly "love", it's the result of the hormones, chemicals and electrical signals traveling around in our brains and bodies. But why that happens you would probably ask? It's just their to get us to want to reproduce and increasing the chance of reproducing and procreating, but what purpose then does that absolutely truly serve? Simple, if these hormones didn't exist then an entire species of all biological beings such as humans would then merely and eventually become extinct since none of us would ever desire to reproduce or to fuck.
One other thing, unless both partners or spouses dies exactly at the same time such as from an accident or some other terrible tragic disaster, then someone will eventually die first and leave the other behind anyway. If that is what they fear, everyone more or less does die alone in the end. It's just a false sense of security people think they will have or feel if they have family, a partner, a relationship, or kids and then they won't die "alone", and you can't take them with you when it's your time to die, well not legally anyway.
And when it comes to sex, it's not worth the hype so many had claimed just because they experienced it. Good luck for those that sleep around and sleep around frequently, as I think that is gonna start running up the bills on contraceptives, as getting someone knocked up or become knocked-up is definitely gonna become even more expensive. That and the possibility of catching some venereal disease with no cure such as herpes, yea, good for them, have fun fucking around until they're fucked from catching any of those diseases. Condoms don't absolutely guarantee 100% from all venereal diseases anyway, so why even hype over sex, it's really nothing special, just in people's heads, providing it any value only because they desire what everyone else claims "feels good" or "feels great".1
Most Helpful Girl
People think having a bf/gf will solve all their problems when feeling lonely. Though that is a big fat lie and it does not fix it at all. The only way that can be fixed is if you feel 100% comfortable with that person. Plus relying on an outside thing trying to fix anything never works well either.
I agree with you on those gagers being pansies! Always size up your mark and if you do it correctly. You will never be rejected and yes I know from experience that works. :P Though dudes might have a higher fail rate. :'(1