Sometimes i really wonder if these are troll accounts or actual men in their 40+ who still think girls today act like girls in their time or only see the nice girl facade that a lot of women show to only people. In every gender debate question/mytake I often see members in this age group tend to be little arrogant thinking that their age makes them better and more knowledgeable about dating, relationship and opposite sex as it applies to 21st century dating.
I also see in gender war type question or ones where a guy is criticizing girl's behavior or dating double standards that men from this age group will often swoop in to attack the male side that agrees calling them misogynist. In addition to this they will reply back to a few female comments.
In addition, I can't understand why some of these guys encourage girls to be slutty or a more accurate term sexually free. You'd think that maybe some of them have daughters themselves and they wouldn't want to know their daughter was giving it up to just anyone but a lot of them encourage young women to explore their sexuality and sleep with as many men possible.
... a little biased in favour of women? You mean not choosing to live in an alternate reality they've created for themselves where women are the spawn of the devil, which helps some (like yourself) feel better that not many women will give them a second glance?
Are you talking about @jacquesvol? I think he was always a liberal. They exist in older generations too.
If anything, I have noticed the opposite - conservative grandpas that can't bear to change with the times. You know, the ones that call black people names and are petrified of being labelled homosexual.
I encourage young women to have sex if they want to have sex. These days we can enjoy sex with little chance of disease or unwanted pregnancy. Isn't modern science great! I don't encourage young women to have sex because they think it will get some man to stick around and love them and maybe marry them, because it won't. And yeah, I have a daughter and I hope she does the same, makes choices to please herself instead of being slut-shamed by jealous idiots.
Do you REALLY think 21st century dating is that different? Some 'etiquette' rules change, but they are very different from city to city, country to country anyway. Nothing new thus. Humans are humans. But misogyny is rampant on the internet, G@g included.
Tough call - It would involve a close look at how the group interact with both genders of all age groups - I can only answer for myself but since I am in that group it may have some reflection on the issue - I hope I approach each question as an individuals situation rather than a group/gender question - If there is any bias in my remarks it is totally subconscious - There will some who would say I gave quite liberal advice to them and others who may say I have given quite prudish/conservative advice. Honestly what I try to do is put myself in the person's position and think what advice would I like to be told if I was them. I think to have a visceral, emotional, impulsive response on tap is dangerous just step back and analyse to try to pick the best path for everyone maybe without slamming anybody, trying to help all concerned,