Today a person I've been talking to on gag for awhile exposed their identity to me! It's someone I know in real life, and they knew it was me all along while talking to me on gag even though I had no idea who they were! I'm hurt and deeply upset to learn this and have no ideas what to do next? Should I just remove this person from my social circle altogether? On gag and in life? I find it disrespectful that he never told me...
2mo We talked on gag as friends, nothing serious nothing kinky. But to know that he's someone I see outside of gag in my real life? I would like to have known that and SHOULD have known that because he admitted to me he knew all along who I was and purposely looked me up for that very reason!
2mo Obviously I overreacted. It upset me this person I liked so much was hiding from me in plain sight. I apologize for wasting everyone's time.
It's pretty weird to do that. I don't really know what the nature of the relationship was, but laugh it off. I also don't know how well you know the person. So can;t really tell you how seriously you should take it.
I suspect that he did not reveal himself because he wanted to know more about you and knew that you would reveal more on here. That would say that he is interested in you. I can understand you being upset, but he did not do it to harm or embarrass you.
I suggest you let him know how you feel (which you have done) and then get over it. If he is a nice guy, then continue being his friend. You could be losing a friend who is basically nice and likes you if you don't get over it.
I think it's obvious this fella has a crush on you and revealed himself in hopes of taking it further. Don't punish him for a stupid mistake. Yea he shoulda told ya up front, but then you wouldn't have talked to him on gag. You even said you were getting to know him better on gag and it seems like him a little which is why you are so pissed. Relax and calm down., Once you see it's not as big a deal as you are making it, you should talk to him again. And this time ya can do it in person