If your trolling breaks any of the sites posting rules and hers doesn't, then your posts will be the ones getting removed. Gender has nothing to do with whether or not you're abiding by the rules: http://www.girlsaskguys.com/faq/posts#9
i have no clue man. i have seen girls saying: you sound like a bitch. which is indirectly telling the OP that she's a bitch, when i say fuck you to someone then it gets deleted. as long as its indirect they dont delete it but if its direct they do. its fucked up man.