Why is it that almost every time I try messaging a girl on here, she leaves the site, almost instantly?

it doesn't happen EVERY time, but, it does happen quite a bit. am i doing something wrong?

Updates:
2mo it shouldn't matter what im saying, since it doesn't always happen. why are only some of them doing this?

by the way, they will often reappear as a new or different username

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Most Helpful Girl

  • no just bad timing. You can still message her even when she not on ya know that right? she'll respond when she's got a chance.

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    • 2mo

      no, im talking, she literally removes her profile. like, it says "user no longer active"

Most Helpful Guy

  • What do you say when you message them?

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What Girls Said 5

  • What do you say when you message them? You're anonymous so nobody is going to be able to see your profile and judge you lol

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  • That all depends on what you're saying.

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  • They've blocked you, but it shows as their no longer a user.

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    • 2mo

      that's not true, there's this one profile who actually removed her profile, and then came back

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    • 2mo

      Blocking someone doesn't make you invisible to them

    • 2mo

      i didn't think so

  • That's weird. does it happen to all the girls? maybe it's a coincidence

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  • Maybe you come off as creepy...

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What Guys Said 1

  • It sounds like she is getting loads of unwanted messages and hasn't found the "Only Receive Messages From People You Follow" setting yet.

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