I will talk to a few of the regular users through PM occasionally but I don't understand why I get all of the random PM messages. I have an open inbox because I'm cool with people asking me questions every once in awhile if they don't feel comfortable asking all of G@G. Unfortunately most people message with "Hi", "Where are you from?", "What are you wearing?", "What is your opinion on cum?", etc.
I like this site and I converse a lot through opinions, but PMing annoys me- especially since 99% of the time I feel like it's a creep who just wants to jerk off to whatever I say.
It's frustrating because I end up being a bitch to everyone I don't know that PM's me. I get at least one PM a day from younger female users that I'm afraid might be a creepy old man- so I just block them lol it might make me look like a bitch- but the users of G@G are who have made me so defensive. (some, not all of course)
So for the question, What makes you feel the need to PM someone opposed to just talking over comments and questions?
- I have a private question to ask that I don't want to ask all of G@G4%(1)8%(7)Vote10%(6)
- Because I'm bored4%(1)5%(4)Vote5%(3)
- Because I'm lonely7%(2)7%(6)Vote7%(4)
- Because I want to jack off to everything you say7%(2)10%(9)Vote12%(7)
- I don't PM random people78%(22)70%(61)Vote66%(39)
Most Helpful Guy
None of those reasons really apply for me. If I PM a girl it's just because there's something that I want to say and usually I've already had an exchange of conversation with them in a thread. You can only take over someone's question thread so much before it gets a bit rude.
It's also fair to say that I've been PM'd by as many females as I've PM'd and I don't just mean the ones who reply. I mean ones who PM out of the blue, because they want to say something or have a question. I honestly don't have an issue with it. I certainly don't PM everyone that I follow, far from it. It's only a small few people.1
Most Helpful Girl
Honestly it happens to me too, I just swiftly and professionally decline explicit sexual inquiries by referring to my profile. Lol. I've only ever PMed a few people because I thought they were cool for a chat, not to perv. Though back in my single days I did flirt occasionally, but harmlessly.1