I just joined this website and I've already had three people instant message me and ask for sexual advice and then start asking personal questions. I don't mind giving advice at all, but are they actually 40 year old men that are going to track me down? Thanks
I understand the anonymity thing, but when they change from a question to their girlfriend to asking me if I let my dog eat me out I can't help but question my safety
about their girlfriend*
k so can people stop answering this now pleeeeease? :)
Just be pick and choose on who you respond to and what questions you answer. And yes if you don't give out your address, phone number, etc, don't worry about it, your safe and fine. Ill be the next to say, your gorgeous, but eh, unless you live in or around the same city as me, no point in trying to move in on you haha, they are just desperate for attention.
OK here's the thing, this is a relationship and sexual advice site, sadly there are freaks out there of our gender, the site having open registration and all you can't really stop them from coming
what you should do:
ignore guys who message you where you feel they have ulterior motives
make your profile private(no IMs) by going to Account(over to the right, blue button) -> settings tab(far right of all of them) -> and click " [ ] Set Profile Private" check box, then save at the bottom right of that area
now there are good people on here, those would may really like your advice or are curious about some sexual things but if you don't feel comfortable, tell them, if they don't care, don't listen or ignore it, end communication with them.
Shouldnt give out personal info on the interent. However the chances of a guy tracking you down to rape you is illogical.. All that trouble when I'm sure they know people where they live. (thats sounded creepy) anyways enless there really that desperate and you give them your adress I doubt anyone on this site will be comming to you. Besides half the population of this site are lazy they ask questions that can be answered in two sec. In google and they repost the same dam questions without searching for the thread first.
If they're really creeping you out, report them and block them. If it's seriously bad, not to doubt that it is, and they could very well be sexual predators, take them out of the picture and let the moderators do the dirty work.
haha damn ummm, watch out for a dog because that just could be painfull... from my point of view, and if you see there name you can scroll over it and itll show you age and where they live unless they got funny settings...
You are taking things way too seriously I think. If you are worried about your safety over someone asking a fetish question (which it appears you were) then I don't think you're mature enough to be on the internet
The internet allows someone the comfort of being anonymous to ask questions. Usually people join this site to ask questions they cannot normally as family or friends. I myself have found this site to be very helpful and useful. If you are that concerned about that situation, disable your chat feature.
I had one creepy guy I'm me but you can easily block them. There are creeps where ever you go, if it was only a matter of pushing a button all of the time :-) Just don't give too many personal details like any where else online like "I live alone at this address..." or "my roommate will be leaving for the night at 7..." A little common sense goes a long way.
personally I don't friend or I'm or even chat with people under 18 on this site, or even really respond to questions but thought I'd share my opinion with you. I don't want anyone to think I am interested in something more than just answersing questions. I also prefer not to chat or I'm or anything with men over 60 why on earth are old men on this site with young people?
Sorry if I offend anyone, just be careful who you friend accept and what and how and who you im, chat or comment with.
Ha, you're just letting it get to you. Just ignore those people, and just remove the whole chat thing in general. I had an account on here with my picture on it, and started getting some pretty weird messages, so I deleted my account and put up one without my picture. No one really messages me about those things, anymore. Plus, you're pretty, so it's too easy to click on your face and send a dirty message.