Yes - this is a bashing question so don't re-ask is it one.
But my point is, the constant stream of "does that person like me?" questions drives me nuts - even if you suck at knowing it, then just ask that person! How could we know better?
Also relationship questions - "my partner is disrespecting and cheated on me, what should I do?" I'm in awe about the nerve of some people. Break-up!
And not to forget appearance and preference questions, especially questioning their importance(I'll give a hint: it's extremely important) but what people answer "it's not that important" and "it's all about confidence" it sickens me to read such bullsh*t. Even the thought someone may believe it... terrible!
But on the top of that all is it's not coming from immature teenagers but freakin 30years old and up people! I mean - seriously?
I swear there was a woman over 40 asking "does he like me?"
and around the same age, men asking something like "what's the best way to approach a girl?" along with other atrocities.
I wish there would be a way how to make people get the common sense because I swear it would answer most of questions, in fact - it would eliminate the need to even ask in the first place such stupid things.
But it's not the spam what bothers me, it's the emotional (im)maturity of the people, even grown-ups which is leaving me in some kind of a state of shock.
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I understand where your coming from.
I think a lot of the questions, and I'm guilty of it, is a lack of knowing because you're involved in the situation. I quite often want an outsiders point of view because they can view it with a more level head.
As for the partner disrespecting, sometimes it's not as easy as that. A lot of people, women especially, want to fix what they have, however broken it is.
The older people on this site, I agree it is worrying. But maybe some of them never had the confidence to do these things when they younger, or perhaps they have lost the confidence. Say there is a man out there who has been with his woman for 20 or 30 years, since high school, or university, or whatever, and then suddenly they divorce and break up. He may have no idea how to treat any other woman than her.
I think you should be thankful you are as level headed as you are :)0