Hi I would like to know why do certain gag users always insult someone feelings on how they look in the picture? I been insulted when people called me ugly a few times and I am getting annoyed by it,have any of you been insulted with these names and is there a reason why for people to be doing this it suppose a site to answer questions and such not insults.
i felt the same last week, I got bashed in one question I asked. really got me down. but then I realized its the internet and people are gonna say what they wanna say, and it doesn't reflect reality, there's a lot of people who hide behind their computer screens and say things as if they have super powers and are perfect beings themselves. they have insecurities and flaws too. there's a whole world out there, and not everyones gonna like you, but there are gonna be tons of people who will. we can't please everyone, we just have to accept ourselves, be proud of who we are and rock it. because its our life to live not theirs. =]
Because those people are really sad with their lives and insecure so they sit behind a computer and call other people names who don't deserve it. Seriously, don't let it get to you. Just report/block them and continue on with your life. Don't give them the satisfaction by allowing them to hurt your feelings. They're just pathetic trolls with no lives.
don't worry about it. At least you have the balls to post you're actual picture. It makes them feel bigger to insult you. But I like that you still post you're picture. It's like your saying "look, I don't give a sh*t what you think about me. I know I'm a good person." I love the color of you're eyes by the way :)
I don't think you are ugly. Some people are just evil.
I get a butt load of jerks too who think just because I'm 32 I should know or experience certain things already. Well, duh! That's why I'm on this site, cause I don't know certain things. I guess we just got to keep trying.
word of advice, don't personalize internet accounts too much, there's always losers who want to put you down because they are wimpy nerds who like to talk sh*t on their computer all day. its just not worth the headache, these idiots don't know you nor do they ever socialize at all. they just sit on their computer and judge people because they are bitter and alone
Sometimes these things happen and the trolling must commence.
I'm saying this because I hope you find it helpful, not because I'm trying to be negative. I don't date men, but...
- Your picture makes you look really pale, even a little bit of sunshine should help
- Grow your hair out, seriously. A short haircut on a pale face looks like you are a bit geeky, even if you aren't.
- You aren't smiling. It makes you look upset or angry.
When you add all of the factors above, I don't think it is a very good picture of you. I think you're capable of looking better, even though it gives people no excuse to start throwing around terms like "ugly". I hope that if you find my advice useful, that you will take more pictures that are photogenic to you and hopefully increase your success in the dating world, as looks do matter and we should always try to look our best. I think you have more to work with than others are giving you credit for, but you might want to consider the steps I suggested above.