Remember, people that come on here that ask for advice are generally doing so because they HAVE NOT been successful in love in the past. Sometimes that just means they need to be humble long enough to listen to good advice and try it out, instead of getting defensive and try to defend their failed behavior. It works both ways.
I tend to offend people with my direct and sometimes over the top response. especially the prudie types. That said, when one posts a Q here, those answering have to go at it often with limited info. It is the internet, not a session with a therapist. what the f*** do you expect? just sayin'