You put up a picture of a cute young girl for your profile pic. Whether its you or not, whether its shopped or not, doesn't matter. People make the connection and are like "hurr sexy hurr."
Take my pic for example, its the doughboy. Nobody thinks the doughboy is sexy. Though I am sure most of the chicks here would rather wake up to my biscuits fresh and hot than the man they are currently waking up to...
but my point is that my profile has zero sex appeal or attraction, and thus no friend requests or messages.
Which is fine, because this isn't a social site really. Id rather keep it in the questions.
Look at peoples answers, and look at their pics.There's a clear connection.
I get a few requests here and there, not really many tbh. I did get a few weird wall posts though, like this one asking me to be her friend so she could get to know me and 'maybe more' lmfao, that cracked me up