I just read a question on here about a girl who likes to try new things and all that stuff, her boyfriend likes to get into things he shouldn't be doing. She says she loves him and asked him to change but he hasn't.
"her boyfriend likes to get into things he shouldn't be doing"
So yeah she should totally let him do stuff he shouldn't be doing... WTF? You see someone f***ing up you tell them to stop f***ing up, it's that simple. Either you realize it and stop or you continue doing it and ruin the relationship. It's he's just eating fatty food and she's telling him to stop there's room for negotiation if he's abusing drugs or liquor she has every right to ask otherwise she'd be just as responsible if he hurts himself or someone else.