A: We don't know. There's a million reasons. Maybe he doesn't like you. Maybe he's dead. Maybe his phone died. Any answer from us is a guess.
Does he/she like me?
A: Probably not, probably so... I can guess "yes" if it makes you feel better.
"Is he/she cheating on me?"
A: Yes, now go kill yourself please... OK honestly we're only guessing. Whatever "reasons" you gave in your post for suspecting him are circumstantial and/or downright speculation. It's obvious that you don't trust him/her, but that's all we really know.
You get the drift. I'm pretty sure that everybody on here can rationally answer MY question honestly, truthfully, and accurately than so many questions on here all the while with less speculation...
Sometimes I think it's just for reassurance. It's like talking to your best friend and asking him/her what's up with that guy/girl? She doesn't know either but she can only guess. It's to have some opinions and ideas other than your own ideas.
Like the texting: why isn't he texting me back? You can say he doesn't have the time, bla bla bla, but someone on GAG here can maybe think of other reasons that you can't think of? It's a different point of view, to have someone listen to you and give you advice.
I think sometimes it's like talking to a friend because nobody can handle everything on their own. When that person really doesn't know what to do or think, they don't always think of the most logical explanation, some people here might give them that explanation.
It's true, you only get half the story, don't know the people involved or the situation. When I answer these type question I think kinda like this "what are reasons I wouldn't return someone's text?" answer: are they being clingy, did they do something to make me mad, am I not really into the person texting me?
Translate that into an answer for someone else, encourage them to talk about it face to face with thier guy/gal and hope that it gives some insight to calm thier nerves. When people are worked up they don't tend to think straight missing even generic, obvious answers. I don't claim to know anything, I just hope to help someone think about it.
Sometimes strangers can't now the answer, but a lot of times they can because even though we are strangers to each other; we are connected by similar experiences and feelings. Someone who is just a stranger to you may have dealt with the issue you're talking about first hand or they may have observed that issue play out among people and know exactly how that course runs.
Yes, there are some details that we couldn't possibly know as strangers, but that doesn't mean that we can't give insight and advice as strangers. Which is what people are looking for. You think that we should stop coming here and seeking advice because "strangers can't know the answers to our questions"? Lol, then there would be no purpose in this website.
Well because they want to hear and other people opinion and then to make a go for it they just want to make sure that what they think is rely the right thing it's how thing's go in this life but we all have the answer's just some people are to lazy to think