Why hasn't he returned my texts?
A: We don't know. There's a million reasons. Maybe he doesn't like you. Maybe he's dead. Maybe his phone died. Any answer from us is a guess.
Does he/she like me?
A: Probably not, probably so... I can guess "yes" if it makes you feel better.
"Is he/she cheating on me?"
A: Yes, now go kill yourself please... OK honestly we're only guessing. Whatever "reasons" you gave in your post for suspecting him are circumstantial and/or downright speculation. It's obvious that you don't trust him/her, but that's all we really know.
You get the drift. I'm pretty sure that everybody on here can rationally answer MY question honestly, truthfully, and accurately than so many questions on here all the while with less speculation...
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Sometimes I think it's just for reassurance. It's like talking to your best friend and asking him/her what's up with that guy/girl? She doesn't know either but she can only guess. It's to have some opinions and ideas other than your own ideas.
Like the texting: why isn't he texting me back? You can say he doesn't have the time, bla bla bla, but someone on GAG here can maybe think of other reasons that you can't think of? It's a different point of view, to have someone listen to you and give you advice.
I think sometimes it's like talking to a friend because nobody can handle everything on their own. When that person really doesn't know what to do or think, they don't always think of the most logical explanation, some people here might give them that explanation.8