I'm something of a student of social interaction, and I signed up on here to try and get a different point of view, even learn a few things about male and female interaction, I still am interested actually.
But damn, some of these people are just plain stupid. This isn't a troll topic either, you are REALLY dumb. Like, do you know how many questions I come across regarding guys who were used by girls, and girls who were played by guys? Too many.
This is no skin off my back so I shouldn't care, but let me give you a bit of life advice. You will encounter users everyday, not just for sex or for your money, but for everything. If you are this old by now and haven't learned how to gauge a person's integrity, you are in some deep sh*t.
That person who played you may be an awful person, but you are just as much an idiot for letting them into your life. No one but a gun to your head to let them into your life, it was your decision.
If I owned a white unmarked van, and asked you to get inside of it with promises of candy and funny stories, and you, as an adult, took me up on that offer, are you at part to blame? Yes you are. Same context. Live it, learn it.
God, does anyone else feel this way? I used to think people were smart.
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I don't think anyone has the right to judge another person. You don't know the entire situation and just because you've been in a similar position does not mean all of a sudden you know everything. It annoys me much more to meet people who think they know it all and have everything figured out like you seem to think you have about users. You don't have the right to call anyone a idiot either. That's just plain rude. I understand what you are trying to say but just be careful, cause it's really not as easy as you make it sound. Life situations and circumstances are vastly different. Not all people will see it the way you do. Not all people can be as "smart" as you when it comes to love. It's a thing called respect and tolerances and not being arrogant which is another skill some humans seem to lack. Not having tolerance and arrogance is a sign of a low EQ which is just as important to a certain extent as your IQ so matter how smart a individual may think they are, if you're EQ is't so bright then unfortunately you're not as smart as you thought you were. Just saying. I'm sorry if I come across as angry but this is kinda a issue that bugs me of some people I meet in real life as well. They think they know it all and can call other people idiots for not seeing things like they do. That's way more annoying to me than some people asking for legit advice on a Q and A website. It's not that those people aren't smart. They're human and you shouldn't judge.1
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