I feel like I can ask a simple question and I get like anon users yelling/saying rude things to me. Like that isn't what this site is for, and I'm pretty sure 90% of the people saying those things would never have the nerve to say those things if they werent hiding behind their computer screen.
Yes I agree, there is a difference between a little tough love and just no compassion. Nobody is perfect and shouldn't feel bad for the questions they ask or mistakes they make. That's the whole point of posting a quesiton we want someone to help us who understands but we hope they are nice about it instead of ignorant. I hate when something simple turns into this drawn out debate. The people I feel who are mean spend waay too much time online and feel like they now have some kind of power like they own the internet or something lol. If it's not the cocky girls who come off as bitchy it's the guys who don't think before they speak. I just try to filter them out like they don't matter *flips hair* lol
Why are you asking this question?!?! This isn't what this site is for! Lol I'm just messing with you. One of the biggest lessons I've learned over these past years of my life is this: no matter where you go, no matter who you are, there will always be haters, mean people, dumbasses, and stupid people around who just want to give you crap because they're sh*tty human beings. The best thing the rest of us can do is ignore them and/or stand up for ourselves when necessary. Don't let people on here get you down, you're better than that.
I figure I've been real MEAN sometimes, I mean sometimes I get angry at someone. But, I don't like to think I'm so bad. There are some cats here who are just unnecessarily unhelpful about all matters. Insufferable a**holes. I mean, I would excuse them if they were, you know, funny, or something. But they ain't.
I noticed your comment on the male answer and people on here tend to be conservative and up their asses regarding sexuality and relationships. They know what's best for EVERYONE but themselves
Let it go. They've got a lot of nerve because this site creates the idea that virginity and inexperience is what the world revolves around and whenever people come on here seeking real advice, they flip the f*** out
Don't worry about it
And what I say on here I say to anyone. Ask my mom or friends lol they'll tell ya
But I do think the screen gives people e-courage to say sh*t they'd never say. It can be a good thing or bad thing. Good because people sometimes need outside sources or a place to vent or release private info. Bad cause they abuse it
No one has ever really "attacked" me, but sometimes I sense an attitude in their response. I think it really unnecessary. I don't see the point in commenting, if you're they're just going to be bitchy and rude about it. Some people don't acquire the ability be both honest and tactful. And of course, everyone is quick to pass judgements on others. That's life, unfortunately.
People today are quick to criticize, quick to condemn, quick to judge. If somebody is just not like them, if they're a little different, some just don't understand. Instead of giving the person the benefit of the doubt, they look him or her up and down and pick out all the faults they can find.
"I would never dress like that." "Why would she want to wait until marriage?!" "If I were her, I wouldn't wear that much makeup." "He is not doing enough in his job hunt." "You spend too much money." "If I were you, I wouldn't drive that."
How someone spends money, what they drive, how they behave in their personal life, what they drive, etc... That is all none of my business.