I think I do. I don't know if my specific comment helped the specific asker, but when I ask questions I generally feel helped after. Even if the help comes from the general consensus rather than one answerer. Sometimes I even feel helped if I'm not the one who asked the question but was wondering that as well. Or if guys ask girls whether or not they like something and I haven't done that thing I can know to either do it or steer clear of it.
Basically, I learn a lot from many people on here, so I figure I must have helped someone in some small way.
Hi there, yes I do wonder. Unfortunately because of my login name people want to argue my religious views even when the question or response is not religious based. I wonder if my login name was a mistake as I get immediately judged. People argue with me on something and then turn around and agree with someone else who said exactly what I said lol. I hope that I at least help one person. Thanks for question. Wish you the best.
Ive been told by people before that my answers have helped them and it makes it worthwhile. I talked to someone once who wanted to commit suicide, I don't know if they really wouldve gone through with it but just the thought that I might have saved a life is so rewarding.
The smallest of acts can make the largest of impacts. Do I wonder? No. I know I have. Whether it be giving someone a new perspective toward a near insignificant subject or aiding in a decision that may have changed their lives forever, it does not matter. People are easily influenced. So if all you do is agree on something someone else already said, you giving it more credibility was a part of the aid that helped someone else.
If you are asking if you wonder if you actually made a difference in their lives, I do. I wonder what ended up happening to them, what did they decide? Did everything work out? In hopes that I did, I continue to help. :)
I know my advice is rarely well-received, but I try to be honest as I can. So I only hope some of it settles in, even if it is bitter going down.
But most of the questions here seem to be just rants by jealous women or sexually frustrated men who are not looking for advice or answers, but self-affirmation or sex chat partners. Unfortunately, I excel at neither, so, like I said, my advice is rarely well-received, even by genuine question askers..
but, to answer your question directly, yes. I do wonder.
I know at least in once instance that I did for sure. I stopped a girl from breaking up with her boyfriend for what was a stupid reason. She came back a week later and posted an update saying thank you and that things had been resolved so she was no longer going to break up with him. If only her boyfriend knew how one bro saved another.