I'm constantly being added as friend on GaG, usually by guys, a few girls added me and I've added a few girls as friends too, I've never added a guy to friends myself.
Sometimes you they try to chat you up in messages and such, but why? Do you guys who do this really think you might have a chance with some of the girls here?
I don't really have a problem with it, I just don't really understand why you guys do it, most of the guys who add me as well are generally American, I'm from Europe so it's not like we even live close.
I usually accept every add since I've no problem with talking to anyone really, but I honestly don't have any intention whatsoever in ever dating someone from here, or meeting up etc, constantly being asked for my MSN, Facebook, phone number, email etc etc.
Like if people wanna add me and ask questions or need some advice, than great, that's sort of why I like this site, but really...
I'm kinda getting tired of people trying to chat me up.
I know I'm doing this anonymously, but if you're the type of guy that does this sort of thing, maybe you should re-think this a bit?
I can't talk about every girl of course, but honestly I find it a bit creepy...
As I just said as a comment to one of the other comments, when a guy adds me and the first thing he says is "your so hot/sexy" or something like that, I just immediately think that he wants to have sex (I sort of think the same IRL too so that is probably why), I just don't see why you'd say that first without even knowing me.
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The friend requests I get is after making a direct comment to someone. I should hope that it was governed by how they related to what I said and in turn wanted to get more insight into my thoughts and opinions. Though this is a site where the broken heart, the lost and confused come to find comfort in the words of those who have them to offer. Sometimes in responses people connect to others in what they have said thus prompting them to interact as they have sparked an interest. In this age of texting, and IM's a response could be viewed as a sign to some as you having an interest in them. I personally do not understand it but it is a new reality of the 21st century where social norms no longer exist. Cyber ones how ever well that's a hole new story. Perhaps these individuals are of the extreme "social rejects" in there daily lives. Thus the only way the can talk to a female in such context is behind the stroke of there key... None the less we have the ability to not entertain these individuals and if we choose to "chat" them up we can make it clear that there is no chance that anything would happen... Just my two cents for what its worth...0