There always seems to be at least 2 posts a day of some man whining about how unattractive he is, or a woman of how no guys want to date her.
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Here's what I've noticed about people who post questions asking why nobody wants to date them...
There's usually some question like "Women say the want a man with a steady job and good income. I have two fulltime jobs and I'm in law school/medical school. Why can't I get a girlfriend?"
And in the post, the Question Asker lists only their positive qualities like they're employed, and they have a car, and maybe they own their own home. They don't list any negative qualities. And, of course, the people who respond, going on limited info, say "Oh, I'd date you", and "you sound like a great catch, there's someone out there for you".
But how can anybody reading the question honestly determine why the Question Asker can't get a date? We don't know them. Maybe they do have those great qualities, but maybe they're also $25,000 in debt with no plans on paying it off. Maybe they're a sociopath. Maybe they talk smack about their friends behind their backs, and everyone in town knows it. Maybe they have multiple STDs. So we can't make an accurate diagnosis of what the problem is when there are obviously important details missing.
And of the details that are provided, maybe there's something we're not getting regarding that. Like, if they say they own their own home, maybe that's true, but maybe their home is in the worst neighborhood in the ghetto, and the floor is covered in old pizza boxes, and the place is infested with rats and spiders. So those types of questions will never get good answers.
For anybody who is thinking about posting a "Why can't I find a date" question, instead of only posting the good qualities about you and giving us half the story, help us out and list top 5 worst (or top 5 unattractive) things about you. Of course, if you that, you probably just answered your own question.