I originally came to get advice about my dating situations and hear unbiased, objective opinions and perspectives (very naive, I know).
I enjoy helping others as well, when and if I can.
Now, I'm not so sure anymore.
Sometimes I feel like a masochist for staying, haha!
I do have a few friends here, people who seem to be genuinely good people. I have to give GAG credit there for bringing us together.
And I do still enjoy helping others.
No matter how ugly things are, I'll always try to spread as much beauty as possible. I like to remind others (and myself) that good people do exist. It's not always easy and I definitely fail that mission sometimes, haha! Especially when trying to convince myself...
Sometimes I have spare time and there are friends here to talk to or just interesting topics to read to pass time. Then sometimes there are serious questions and I try hard to help the question asker or at least give them another perspective to consider.
I'd like to think I help people but who knows if I ever really do. lol.
For me it has been a way to have contact with people from other walks of life, different opinions as well as other cultures in a non-threatening safe way. Its also nice to receive advice when having difficult situations.
Blind opinions, tips, tricks, and a look at what other people think of me and my actions. Male and Female perspectives who don't worry about hurting my feelings, nor will I ever meat so I can ask for advice without fear.
its nice to have people to talk to, I also use it like a blog or to replace Facebook. I will apply what I'm, going through in real to my answers and if I look back on my answers I remember when I wrote it (been using this site for years now) its like a journal. I am always as honest as possible. It's interesting to see how my opinions have changed over the years, and this site has been a way to deal with my break up with my first love.. I have posted lots of questions about him! I go anon because I really don't want to be present in the community here, I am a loner... sometimes I will connect with people but I don't keep up friendships that's just who I am. I really like giving advice, I think it would be a fun career! One of my favorite shows was Talk Sex With Sue Joe Hanson, I think healthy conversations about sex and relationships is so important.
I ask questions every once in awhile when I really need some third-party, objective advice about a given situation, but mostly I just offer advice. I like being able to help people and the xper points/rewards are just a bonus : )
hmm I don't know.. am from kurdistan so I read stories about people life and how stuped are to ask some quistion witch 9 year kid can answer.. yeaa so I discovered they all wierd..
I think I sought out this website to get help on girl issues which had been plaguing me for several years. Except, I didn't really ask any questions about it, I just learnt through answerring others questions because I knew what to do/say in their situations but I just couldn't change it to fit my situation regardless of how similar they were.
Now though its more of a time waster than anything. I mean I do enjoy helping people, who doesn't right? But its more something I've started to do in the last hour or so of the day when I'm lying in bed
I am using it just for fun and talk everything I can not talk to my everyday friends face to face. This is not a religious site or site to advice somebody about ethics. I enjoy reading sex questions and answers, and occasionally answer some, mostly without hiding my identity.
initially..relationship advice and opinions from many sources instead just one source like an article or something. Turns out...it's a pretty sweet community so I use it to chat, give relationship advice and kill time at work! Met some cool peeps in the process.
I came here a long, long time ago for no reason. I stayed for no reason. I quit because I had other things to do. I came back for no reason. I stay for no reason. I assume I'll quit soon. Nothing better than circles and cycles.