So I'm wondering if you expect people who add you to message you? Personally I add a some females from time to time but I never message them. some delete me after a while.
When someone on gag adds you, do you expect them to message you?
What Girls Said 19
no if a guy adds me I assume he's doing it to see if there's hidden friends only photos of myself on my profile or if I answered his question I think he might friend me to message me more about my answer
if a girl does it I assume she's interested in reading other answers of mine or asking about my answer to her question
90% of the time I do get messaged from a guy its a pervy message which I delete and unfriend the person, I've only been messaged 4 times by girls and all of those were about questions and turned into friendships0
Only if we've talked back and forth before using comments. Otherwise, not really.
But tell me, why would you add someone and then not message them? What's the point? Does it make you proud to have 1000 female "friends" or something? This is a warnign sign for me, I would never accept it or would immediately unfriend him again if I see this. Cause chances are he's a perv.0
My settings prevent anyone who is not added from messaging me.0
No not really.Maybe they added me because they liked some of my answers and they want to ask me for advice.1
No I don't expect them to message me. I have many on my list of friends. I think I have (7) pages, but I only really talk to just (2) members on a regular basis. I am not a social butterfly like many people. I am a bit introverted person by nature.0
I don't expect it, but it's kind of annoying...what's the point of adding me if you aren't going to talk...It's not a contest to see how many people someone can add0
Not really but if a guy sends a friend request I'll be more likely to expect one. I've gotten a few messages from female friend users.0
no, I am really just here to answer questions not build relationships1
I sort of expect them to, because people who usually add do. I either expect that or for them to look through my old answers and questions.0
Nope, not really.0
no because they usually don't0
I don't expect it but if they want to, that's fine.0
Not really but it would be nice0
Initially yes now I dont..0
No one that added me has talked to me0
No I don't but I know a lot of guys on here assume that when I accept their friend request I must wanna talk to them, which isn't necessarily true. I have no problem talking to anyone but sometimes I get a lot of messages and forget to respond, or I get messages that just say "hi" or where their English is terrible (and I'm a grammar nazi so it kind of drives me crazy) or sexual/"inappropriate" questions I just don't want to answer. so sometimes I don't respond. Basically, don't feel obligated to send a message when you add someone - it's really OK not to get one lol0
Not on this site. Nobody messages me.0
Not really. That's why there is no point in requesting or accepting friend requests.2
What Guys Said 6
Nope. I don't expect them to message me but a few have. I've added and messaged some, usually to discuss something I found interesting or about a related topic we have in common.1
I wouldn't ' mind if they did, but that almost never happens. unless they think I'm trying to stalk them or something, which they message me about once in a while when I add them.0
No. I don't even know why some add me. Maybe it's because my profile is set to "Private", but I only got messages from like 2 out of 75 friends on here. I never send messages to anyone unless they ask me a question or something.0
when I add someone I message them and if they don't respond in a few days I delete them.There's no point in friending people on this site unless you find them interesting enough to talk to1
Nothing is wrong with the idea. Eventually it may be a great thing. I like to imagine how great it would be if republicans actually helped instead of crying and sabotaging it.0
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