Im a new member and I just read a girl's profile that said "I'm not here for dates or to make friends, so don't bother sending me friend requests". I have seen a lot of profiles like this on here saying pretty much the same thing on this site by girls users and it makes me so angry that people can be so initially rude and nasty for no reason.
Why are so many girls on here so unfriendly and rude if this site is supposed to be a forum to HELP people? Maybe I don't understand something because I'm new. Thanks.
its not bitchy to request that she be left alone, a lot of new members with no answers or questions (and some older members) add girls to private message inappropriate creepy or sexual comments and we get sick of it, those girls probably don't know how to turn off friends requests so they have to make a warning on their profile.
some people like answering questions and giving advice here in public only not private requests for help, if you were messaged lots every week by creeps asking how big your dick was or if you wanted to perform sexual acts or begging for Skype/contact details or if you'll please humiliate them cause theyre into that etc I bet youd put a message up there too.
this happened to me all the time when I accepted friend requests, I had 3 or 4 people a week asking me sexual things or being creeps, I'm also introverted and wouldn't be great with keeping up with messages from genuine people so I would feel bad if someone expected a friendship when I'm just here to answer questions
I don't think it's bitchy, she's just being blunt about what she's here for, and it's not for friendship. It's not like she was swearing or calling people names or anything. I used to have this on my profile when we had chat on this site: "I'm here to ask and answer questions not to chat so please don't IM or message me." We're not all social butterflies, some people just prefer to be left alone, no hard feelings intended.
Because this is not a social site like Facebook. People come here to ask and answer questions. Some people make friends along the way, but no one is obligated to. And sometimes, being "friends" with everyone unselectively can backfire. Always backfires. Either you get perverts messaging you, or you get people asking you for help when in fact they don't want to listen at all. That's just annoying.
It's not that they don' t want a relationship. They just want to make sure all the gaggers know we're not worthy. It's a way of making herself feel better about being on a site dedicated to people who don't know everything. :-)
I've actually not ran into many of the ones you're talking about, mainly because I don't visit their profiles and see that stuff lol. But I think with the amount of creepers on this site, stuff like that is almost required to get the message across to the creeps.
There are a couple of users on here who have an ax to grind anyway. The only one I can think of off the top of my head that is consistent with it is that Jueey05 or whatever her name is. Anything you answer with, she'll snap back with something tool-ish as if you called her out for something lol. She used to have on her profile "I'm blunt and not afraid to speak up" or something to that effect. But really, she's just too stubborn and unwilling to see the difference between a person that is blunt, and a person acting like a tool just to be edgy about it.
Avoid her and any others like that (so basically, don't get wrapped up in comment wars with them) and this site will be a little more bearable :)
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