Im a new member and I just read a girl's profile that said "I'm not here for dates or to make friends, so don't bother sending me friend requests". I have seen a lot of profiles like this on here saying pretty much the same thing on this site by girls users and it makes me so angry that people can be so initially rude and nasty for no reason.
Why are so many girls on here so unfriendly and rude if this site is supposed to be a forum to HELP people? Maybe I don't understand something because I'm new. Thanks.
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its not bitchy to request that she be left alone, a lot of new members with no answers or questions (and some older members) add girls to private message inappropriate creepy or sexual comments and we get sick of it, those girls probably don't know how to turn off friends requests so they have to make a warning on their profile.
some people like answering questions and giving advice here in public only not private requests for help, if you were messaged lots every week by creeps asking how big your dick was or if you wanted to perform sexual acts or begging for Skype/contact details or if you'll please humiliate them cause theyre into that etc I bet youd put a message up there too.
this happened to me all the time when I accepted friend requests, I had 3 or 4 people a week asking me sexual things or being creeps, I'm also introverted and wouldn't be great with keeping up with messages from genuine people so I would feel bad if someone expected a friendship when I'm just here to answer questions2