As for your questions, it's possible they're only hidden for the time being, if they were submitted to an incorrect Topic. If you have any questions about why your questions were removed you can always contact the Admins for help. http://www.girlsaskguys.com/contact
I know there are a ton of changes going on with the site right now, but give it some time, and hopefully things it'll get easier.
:( I feel you man. I don't like it either, I especially hate the fact that they took away my Guru status. I've been on here 4 years and took years to become a Guru and they flushed it down the shitter!