Or are you a more sugarcoating kind of person? or i'd also say a lot of people are very much into the stereotypes and bro code style of answers where they follow common 'rules' as the basis for their answers...
I'm pretty blunt, I won't really beat around the bush, at the same time i'm not here to offend anyone and i'm trying to balance between getting my point across and sounding like i'm being a dick on purpose.
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I do sometimes come across abrasive, but I usually try to be more gentle with my responses because people LISTEN and respond better when you advise that way.
I don't sugarcoat though, I'm always honest. I just choose my words carefully.
Some people like to be assholes and use the excuse, "I'm just being honest." I don't buy that.
Honest ≠ Asshole
There are ways to be honest and get your point across without being hateful, insulting, and/or condescending.
I wish more people understood that.0