Title basically says it all. but im curious. if you liked a girl but are still just friends, how would you hug her? be descriptive! it may help me in decoding my friends feelings.. and im curious!
To recap: explain, in detail, how you would hug a girl that you like/are very interested in?
what about this particular hug?
stands on his tip toes (so he's even taller than you) he holds you in really tight his hands around your shoulders yours around his waist makes your neck fit perfectly into his w/your face nuzzled in his neck?
If I'm not attracted to you, you get a side hug unless you really go in for the full hug, if i find you attractive or care about you ill rap my arms around you with your arms under neath ad mine kinda surrounding your shoulders and i eat my head on your head. If its someone im dating i do that or i hug under her arms so she will rap her arms around my neck
I'm not a hugger. When I hug people, it's because I'm either trying to comfort them, or because I'm into them.
Anyway, I pull them in close so that our hearts are touching (or bewbs, depending on how cynical you are about guys and their intentions), and generally have a lower arm crossing her back horizontally and the other arm starting low at the medial end (elbow) and ending up with my hand on her shoulder. Duration is very context dependant, naturally, but generally: Comforting = <5sec Comforting and liked = 10+ with soothing back rub Random hug with someone I liked = <3sec
If we are with friends, just a normal hug, if we are by ourselves, after getting to know each other a little bit, I always but one hand behind her head, in my mind it's a subtle yet powerful move IMHO.
Hello you ! Difficult question and it really depends on the girl. If she is bright bubbly confident.. yes go for the tight pick up, spin her round. But if she is a fragile little flower, maybe a bear hug might bring back not so good memories and I don't wanna break those petals x
I've noticed a trend and I'm not sure if they mean to do it, but they tend to rub your back while hugging. And sometimes they'll give a tight hug and stuff their face in your hair or shoulder, or maybe even pick you up and twirl you. Gah I love it. :D
I have a guy friend who MAY like me (not confirmed) and one time I went to hug him and he gave me a super tight squeeze-the-death-out-of-me hug. I was like "sheesh!" He said he was trying to give me an awesome hug because apparently I give really great hugs. Daw.