5 things women find unattractive in men

[Anonymous]

So, I just read this really insightful article about 10 things men find unattractive in women. You know what, it has REALLY changed my perspective. I've been doing it all wrong. Silly me!

Just in case you can't be bothered to read the article, the list went as follows:

1. Extreme hairstyles


2. Masked face


3. Sticky eyelashes


4. Too much glitter


5. Yellow teeth and bad breath


6. Lack of body care


7. Oily or dry skin


8. Primping in public


9. Dark lips


10. Perfume overload

They even threw in this picture as a visual aid, how kind:

So I thought I'd draw up a list of 5 things women find unattractive in men:

1. Men who agree with this article


2. Men who think their opinion on these things matters to a woman whatsoever


3. Men who think women only do things to impress them


4. Men who agree with this article


5. Men who agree with this article

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Got it?

[Anonymous]

Men who talk to you gently at first, and you think he's a great guy and this is going great and theeeeeeeen from nowhere he says ''haha and then what? ;)'' AKA starting to show fuckboy signs.
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[AllThatSweetJazz]

What does that even mean? What are you on about? I'm confused.

[Opinion Owner]

It's a term for guys who who are annoying, desperate, constantly asking for nudes, making a girl like you but you really just want sex from her, talking too much about himself etc. The lowest point a guy can get, and no girl ever likes that type of guy.

[Gangstarlicious]

wtf lol. So apparently saying "haha and then what" is desperate and annoying. How did you end up with that conclusion. I'm just as confused as you bro @AllThatSweetJazz

[Opinion Owner]

Oh my god.. *big facepalm* Because many girls have been through this ''haha and then WHAT?;)'' in a sexually fucking way. Jesus, men are so stupid sometimes..

[hypno-trip]

You honestly didn't make that really clear at all.

[Cerenityy]

Its a girl thing because I knew exactly what she was talking about without having to explain lmao

[Opinion Owner]

@hypno-trip a fuckboy is a guy who seems to be a good guy at first, but then starts showing signs of a desperate jerk. ''Send me some nudes'' ''wanna see my dick?'' orrr ''what are you wearing?'' from nowhere. I bet you guys recognize yourselves in this but don't want to understand. Lmao and @Cerinityy yes hahah.

[pbandjam12]

Pretty sure not a single guy here has ever said that. Even if we did that would be the dumbest way to try to get a girl to think "sexually" like we would. "Send me nudes" and "wanna see my dick" are 100% clear signs of a guy being a fuckboi, but what if I was just joking around and decided to say "haha and then what?" that automatically makes me a fuckboi? Much logic

[Opinion Owner]

LOL, really.. @pbandjam12 so why did 10 girls agree with me? It happened to me thousands of times, it's more common than you think. No, but lots of guys start with this: What would you do if I was there? girl: I don't know, maybe watch a movie, talk. boy: haha and then what? ;) = we'll be fucking right? ;) get it now? Or do i have to draw for you?

[YourFutureEx]

I upvoted you mistakenly, I was just scrolling. No man agrees with you.

Have a nice day. ^_^

[Opinion Owner]

No man agrees with us because the truth hurts and now you guys know it doesn't work loool

[VIVANT]

I do not understand the ‘and then what’

Who is saying it ,
What does it refer to,

and why that particular phrase to express the reference?

Is this supposed to refer to the guy out of context saying ‘and then what ‘?

Indicating he was only pretending to be listening to the conversation?

Or is it indicating a tooic change , where he now wants to talk of sexual things?

OR

is it supposed to refer to the woman saying ‘ and then what’ to herself meaning ‘ 🤦‍♀️ 🙄... then I realized what he is’ ?

Honestly , this was not clear at all , even though house is clearly annoyed, so that’s a strong lead, and the overall theme of someone seeming oneway, then you realize ‘ hey oh no they are not what I thought’ , is TOTALLY understandable and universally relatable. The way you wrote it , I can’t tell who is who or what ‘ and then what’ is supposed to be expressing.

I don’t see it sand I don’t think it is dumb that guys don’t see it. It’s easy to just agree you get annoyance...

[VIVANT]

.. doesn’t mean ‘ and then what’ makes any obvious sense.

[VIVANT]

Ok I see it’s him talking and the Woman is now realizing something... but still ‘ and then what’?

Do you mean he says ‘ and _now_ what’?

WTF does and then what mean. Who says that out if context, unless they are trying to sound like an idiot.

[zorro8888]

Before going on an idiotic rant, maybe you should realize a woman wrote the original article. So don't direct your anger/Mytake at men as if we agreed with a woman's point of view.

[myTake Owner]

yeah i knew a woman wrote it. not the point. many men do agree with the list, just scroll down the comments

[zorro8888]

Some of these are just basics... most people in general would hate 5,6 and 10 along with masked face (too much make up)

The others are just stupid... glitter, sticky eyelash... I've never met a guy talking about that.

[YourFutureEx]

Of course you are not trolling. My meter says something else.
https://s.mlkshk-cdn.com/r/AAB
It is spectacular bullshit.

They are admins who are trolling by promoting and featuring such myTakes.

PS:Thanks for wasting 5 minutes of my life.

[gray_sailor]

So, you read an English translation of an article originally published in Portuguese in Brazil.

Then you write a myTake where the lesson you draw from that online article is that the men on GaG just need to STFU.

Got it.

[myTake Owner]

what does the translation have to do with anything?

never said guys on GAG should stfu

[gray_sailor]

The point is that that information in the article was the result of a poll taken of Brazilian men. As much as GaG encourage worldwide membership. The language employed makes it a phenomena of the English speaking world.

To go outside of that world to locate an article to find fault with is one thing. To direct those criticisms at English speaking men is to make us responsible for the views of men that can't even read or contribute to GaG.

Having thus offensively brushed us guys back, I can only conclude that your implied intent is for us to shut up and take it.

[myTake Owner]

Fair enough. But I'm not trying to direct criticism at English-speaking men, this is just the only language I can speak. I think everyone should realise the sexist undertones to the article no matter where you're from or what language you speak.

[gray_sailor]

Sexist undertones in an article authored by a woman. No mention of that little fact in your myTake.

[myTake Owner]

Can a woman not be sexist to women? It's called internalized misogyny. Doesn't matter who wrote it. I said men who agree are tools and any woman with any sense wouldn't like them anyway

[genuinlysensitive]

I'm not sure exactly what is sexist, other than the OP saying that men's opinions don't matter in dating.

[gray_sailor]

Fully aware of the concept of internalized misogyny. I merely make reference to her gender as being a point that is absent from your myTake. An opportunity to criticize that was not taken.

No criticism for the author...
No criticism for the Brazilian poll respondents...

Plenty of criticism for men on GaG.

Even though I am inclined to agree with you on the merits of your argument (what little I can find of it), I still find your tone to be both insulting and combative. Thus making me reluctant to become your ally.

Rough place, the internet.

[noneoftheabove]

Well @gray_sailor some men on here do need to stop whining like bitches.

Plus, why all the sensitivity? Some people get offended at the most stupid things. I read this and didn't even get my panties in a twist. So many people are fucked up on the internet its unreal. Id hate to think what theyre like in real life.

[gray_sailor]

@noneoftheabove

You are correct that the Internet is a largely untamed place. You will get no argument there. Having been active on Usenet since you were a child, I am more than familiar with the bile that flows freely each day.

That said, this little corner of the Internet (GaG) has a unique purpose: to facilitate open communication between the sexes, and answer each others questions.

This myTake is not in that spirit. That is the message of those (of both sexes) who find fault with this myTake.

It is foundational to the culture of the Internet that whatever you put out there is subject to the criticism of any who choose to participate. Offering such criticism is not "whining like bitches".

I find it noteworthy and humorous that in reading your message to me, I could accuse you of the very behavior you decry in others.

"Whining like bitches" indeed.

[noneoftheabove]

@gray_sailor

Im just saying what i think. If it comes across like that then fair enough but thats not the intention.

But my point is this its one persons opinion, why all the sensitivity?

there's 7 billion people in the world.

[GoodDogNigel]

Whaaaaaaaa... whaaaaaaaaaa

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You obviously cared enough to become upset by the list and then make this stupid waste of space.

[myTake Owner]

not as much upset more amused that so many of you seem to assume we do things to impress you :D

[GoodDogNigel]

Believe me, we don't think you guys do:

Yellow teeth and bad breath
Lack of body care
Oily or dry skin

To impress us. But hey, rationalize anyway you want.

[pbandjam12]

Let me help ease your mind by giving you this simple advice: it's not that serious. The article should actually be called "10 things I personally think men probably find unattractive in women, but I have no actual evidence to back this up so I'm gonna write this anyways to piss people off".

[Anonymous]

The article was written by a woman, but it was written as if though that is how men really feel. familyshare.com/.../10-things-men-find-unattractive-in-women There is a pic of the writer, and you can see why the writer would be resentful of the woman she used as an example.

Your post however was pretty aggressive towards men. Especially when you consider that men didn't have anything to do with that article.

[myTake Owner]

aggressive? interesting.

i said men who agree. never said a man wrote it. looks like many do, so i was well within my rights

[Opinion Owner]

It is clear that you thought it was written by a man or else you wouldn't have gotten angry when you read it and have felt the need to lash out at men. Now you are trying to cover your tracks by pretending that it has to do with women being sexist against themselves. While that is possible, that is clearly not the case here.

Besides you also said "Men who think their opinion on these things matters to a woman whatsoever". Clearly our opinion does matter to women at least some of the time. You threw that out there just to show your disrespect towards men. If a man had wrote the equivalent about not valuing the opinion of women you would be angry about his lack of respect towards women. Heck you can't even handle an article written by a woman about what men find attractive without getting angry. You already admitted you were angry when you wrote this so there is no sense in denying it. So yes you were very aggressive towards men when you wrote this.

[0112358]

You noticed the original article was written by a woman, right?

[AllThatSweetJazz]

This.

[myTake Owner]

I didn't say it was written by a man? and it doesn't matter either way. a lot of women are incredibly sexist towards themselves and don't even realise it because that's the way they've been taught to behave. no ones attacking men, but this article is meant to explain what 'men' don't like in a woman and I'm saying if you agree with it you're a total tool and women wouldn't like you if they had any sense anyway.

[NateInAk]

You realize that just because a guy doesn't like something doesn't mean he thinks it's all about him right?
I agree with the list (except for number nine and the picture.)
That does NOT mean that I think everything that women do is about me or men. A woman feels like doing it, fine, but we might as well tell you what we don't like for the times that women DO care what men are thinking of them.

[myTake Owner]

you missed the point... i'm not saying you can't have preferences. but lists like this are so dumb because everyone has different preferences so why generalize?

not sure if you actually read the article but some of it is incredibly sexist claiming women's body hair is 'unhygienic' when most men have a lot more than women. if you want a smooth pre-pubescent looking woman just admit it rather than pulling the offensive and inaccurate hygiene card.

[NateInAk]

So I'm seeing one problem you have with it, it calls not shaving "poor hygiene."
Probably a poor choice of words.
But what I'm saying still stands, just because guys let you know what most of em like, it doesn't mean they expect you to toe the line all the time because they're all that's important in your life.

[myTake Owner]

It's the assumption that I do those things to impress them. So what if I wear glitter? So what if I feel like wearing an extreme hairstyle? So what if I 'primp' in public because I'm running late for work? The world does not revolve around the desires of men. That is my point

[NateInAk]

I'll repeat myself:
For the times you DO care, this is a generally accurate list.

[FakeName123]

It's called having preferences. Preferecens are never racist/sexist/homophobic/msygonistic/whatever buzzword.

Some like apples, some like pears. Some like cheese, some like bacon. Some like blacks, some like whites. Just that there are certain traits, characteristica and such which seem to be a general census for the majority (note: the majority =/= all).

Deal with it.

[dartmaul15]

you know, it's just fair for guys to have preferences Too. You girls seem to have them at least, that's for sure.
So why get so hostile and agressive? They're not deciding what you should do, they're just saying what they don't like. It's clear and can't really be missunderstood. Would you rather fumble arround blindly?

Just saying

[Jamal2121]

Have to agree with you here.

[dartmaul15]

@Jamal2121 sometimes you got to tell the truth, rather than what's politically correct or what you want to hear XD

[Alyssa_123466172]

Exactly! You don't always have to be politically correct! Welcome to the Republican Party!

[dartmaul15]

@Alyssa_123466172 i'm not from the states! And republican or democrat doesn't matter, same shit in different colors. By the way , why aren't the republicans standing up against the new law against manspreading in New York? It's only targeting men, and clarly sexist.

It's not about politics, but about doing what's RIGHT and follow your contiousness! About using what's on top of your torso

[phanindra554plus]

I have seen troll questions but this is the first time I am seeing a trolling take it is really rolling

[ThisDudeHere]

I have to agree with you on this one. Pointless take is pointless.

[myTake Owner]

i'm not even trolling.

[phanindra554plus]

Haah... bow I beloved it blindly lol😊

[MaskedSanity]

Does being this passive-aggressive comes naturally or do you consciously have to work on being butthurt?

[myTake Owner]

i mainly wrote this to get a reaction out of people

[MaskedSanity]

Of course you have, muffin.

[myTake Owner]

you are the most passive-aggressive woman on here tbh, not really sure what gives you the audacity to go round wiggling you finger in other people's face calling them passive aggressive. amusing.

[MaskedSanity]

Lol this just further reinforces the fact that the take was written out of butthurt rather than to "get a reaction", since you're not even smart enough to know the difference between being passive-aggressive and DIRECTLY aggressive.

It must get lonely up there in that hollow head. :)

[DessieDoo]

This just made me laugh uncontrollably. I love this! You have a lot of spunk. Love the attitude hahahaha Thanks for the good laugh. It was definitely needed after my day!!

[lamborgini15]

its a shemale or something?

[Jxpxtxr]

I don't even know why MEN are so angry about this take 😂 It's just funny + your points about what we find unattractive about them are all correct and by not even proving the least bit of a sense of humour (see other comments) the men on this site don't make themselves any more attractive to be honest.

[Keyspirits]

Hay baby 😘

[CincinnatiRedsfan]

Personally, I don't care for any of the things in that article myself.

With that being said, you can't get mad at men for agreeing with it. If they really do put a focus on a girl's skin, then they obviously agree with it. Sure, it's shallow and way too picky but that's how some people are.

[myTake Owner]

yes and i find shallow people unattractive. sue me

[CincinnatiRedsfan]

@Take Owner I am shallow to an extent, just not this shallow. I think extremely shallow people (like people who require that list) are ridiculous. There are different degrees of shallowness. I would be surprised if someone told me they weren't shallow at all.

[aniemist]

Well to be honest everyone has their pet peeves , some are obviously shallower than others , but that can be on either side of the gender debate as well. In fairness though I understand that women are usually under the most pressure to make themselves attractive, at the very least I think I understand where you are coming from.

[myTake Owner]

thanks bud

[hypno-trip]

Women objectify men too! You should see some of the MyTakes women wrote about what body parts they like on men like how they want us to nice lips and eyes and back dimples SMH :(

[myTake Owner]

yeah i don't agree with that either. no one should make these dumb lists. hence why my list was ironic

[hypno-trip]

It's ok we are both people and objects a little objectification is bound to happen. As long as it's not what's most important, because we fall in love with people not body parts or personality traits...

[gray_sailor]

Your list was ironic?

Really?

Totally took you for serious.

That did not look like humor,
so much as a self righteous rant.

[myTake Owner]

@gray_sailor. I'm sorry if it came across as self-righteous. I wrote it when I was angry but it is still ironic. Please don't make me spell out what makes it ironic.

[Sbgirl]

I didn't see much wrong with the original article actually - it was basically saying its always good to have good hygiene and let natural beauty shine through instead of having overloaded make-up and glitter cause it isn't attractive, which is true, right? I wouldn't even say it was necessarily about what men think, but things that are generally less attractive to all people, as often, less is more.

[Aquariusmystery]

Yes but the point is that men shoudlnt pressure women into doing certain things just to be attractive to them. It should be their choice.

[Sbgirl]

Yes of course they shouldn't! I totally agree that women should not be pressured to look a certain way from anybody, but I didn't really get offended by the article, it just seemed to be general hygiene and being more natural, which I think is a good thing, because a lot of women think they have to wear a lot of make-up to look attractive. I do agree with you though, it is a woman's choice on how their appearance is.

[genuinlysensitive]

Wow, so you don't care about men's opinions whatsoever... Let me guess you are single...

[myTake Owner]

no i'm not.

[genuinlysensitive]

Lol of course, and I totally beleicve you.

[myTake Owner]

you think I care what you believe? try again

[genuinlysensitive]

You think someone anyone wants to be with another person who doesn't care for or value their opinions? Try again.

[myTake Owner]

i value HIS opinion. not yours. move along

[genuinlysensitive]

Yea you dont value mens opinions just your imaginary bfs. I get it.

[RIPGagers]

Wow it amazes me the shit that gets promoted these days

[myTake Owner]

cry me a river

[shyguy227]

Does this mean I should not wear my purple and blue midnight body glitter? : O

But really I disagree with this article and the article types of what women hate as well , people will like what they like if some one doesn't like something then no bother no need to make a huge thing out of every ones individual tastes : )