How to Become an Alpha Male

[the_rake]

Greetings,

There has also been a poll taken in my honour demonstrating women's natural preference for alpha males (such as myself) over the inferior beta male variety:

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/girls-behavior/q1717051-girls-do-you-like-alpha-males

Graveytrain has also highlighted the

necessity for dominant alpha male leadership in a relationship.

https://www.girlsaskguys.com/social-relationships/a22652-the-difference-between-leadership-dominance-in-my-personal-opinion

In light of this, I have explored the characteristics of typical alpha male leader types and exampled some of the key alpha male role models however I have yet to highlight the path taken by the young fledgling alpha male to become a swan...or rather, a lion.

Without further ado these concepts shall be elaborated upon:

1. Abandon Feminism

Feminism teaches man that wanting to be dominant is shameful and women need to be the man in a relationship. Obviously this is wrong and unnatural. Men and women are not equal and most women have sexual fantasies about being dominated. Women that don't are acting antagonistic towards social Darwinism (it is the male's natural reproductive role to hunt and provide for the weaker female species).

2. Break fear boundaries

This has to be taken step by step because society has programmed you to become weak and despondent. Hold eye contact longer than other people, let awkward silences role, make other people walk out of YOUR way, take up space, etc. To begin with avoid antagonising fellow alphas and large, hostile crowds. Start off small with weaker beta males , then work your way up as you begin to realise how your own fear and risk assessments work.

3. Brute force counts

If you are going to become a true alpha, you need to be able to defend yourself and look intimidating because most people won't like you very much. This is out of jealousy. I recommend old fashioned lifts like squats and deadlifts and 6-8 meals a day. Eat healthy and do cardio to avoid cutting fat. Women like a rugged man.

4. Defend yourself

Physique is not sufficient. For self-defence, I recommend full contact martial arts such as krav maga and systema. These are the most realistic and applicable systems. If you have to fight then always fight dirty. If you can't defend yourself then you need Machiavellian tactics to manipulate other men into acting as security. Personally I am able to do both as the situation requires.

5. Embrace capitalism

Nothing makes a man sexier to a woman than a fast car and luxury apartment. This is because wealth and possessions trigger the hunter -provider instinct in her amygdala. Multiple 'gold-digger prank' social experiments have confirmed this, eg Vitalyzd. For this reason you need to accumulate capital anyway possible and the way to do this is to overcome your moral qualms about the free market.

Build an investment portfolio, play poker, become a professional hedge fund manager, start a business...in short do whatever it takes to achieve
financial abundance and forget about morality because...

6. Ethics are subjective and the world doesn't give a damn about you

Feminist society has tamed you to become beta males through a false identification with what is 'right'. There is no greater end than economic expediency and the development of modern day society according to capitalist principles. Markets are king so fuck ethics...it's kill or get eaten.

7. Stop bitching

Life isn't fair: men approach women not the other way around. That's because women have higher standards related to wealth and status. Some would argue looks also. Stop waiting around for things to be different because they aren't going to be like that unless the trend of feminist emasculation goes through a seriously bad downward spiral.

Your reality won't change but your mindset can so get off your arse and approach .

Be direct, stop them in the street and state attraction. Be prepared to experience hundreds of rejections before you are successful. Most of all be dominant when you stop a woman in the street and make sure you have her full attention because women tend to daydream. After that you need to move her location to location before she has a chance to think. This is how you get her back to your apartment where you need to be dominant and sexually escalate otherwise she will lose interest.

Regards, the_rake.

[hellionthesage]

I can't help but doubt a man who claims he is an "alpha male", seems like they are trying to hard (I don't know you so you may be this is merely my perception of it). However I would simply state your idea of apha male seems to be lacking any real thought. How often does a powerful man go about mentioning his own greatness? Never, he doesn't need to. Now people who WANT to be important talk about there "greatness" all the time, simply to try and bluff there way through in the hopes of being viewed as important. I would say its the equivalent of comparing a chihuahua to a mastiff. A matiff is giagantic the chihuahua tiny, yet the chihuahua barks at anything and acts as if its dangerous while the matiff is probably one of the friendliest dogs around. Why? Because the chihuahua knows that it is not a real threat, that anything can easily kill it, so it bluffs. Meanwhile the mastiff is so large it knows that know one can really harm it so it has no reason to try and prove its self as a threat. That is the distinction that I would make between an alpha male and your version of an "alpha" male. Its essentially a sad attempt at trying to prove ones worth. Further more why be an alpha male at all? By your definintion a beta male panders to women yet so does your version of an "alpha" male, all that you do is for the attention of women which to me seems awfully similar to pandering, just of a different variety. In short what your describing is a more abrasive versian of a beta, needing outward validation for there existence. As for ethics, if we did not have ethics we would not have society, if we did not have society we would not have civilization and if we did not have that we would not only not be where we are today but would in all likely hood not be alive as a species (most animals are much more dangerous then us on an individual level, its only team work/socialization that makes us the dominant force) Ethics allow us to work as a group towards a single end, if for instance I pay for a service and the person does not need to provide it then I would not pay my resources for that service ie captialism could not function without the trust that ethics instills. If violence was perfectly excepted regardless of consequences then we would not interact since injuries are usually leathel in nature (and without trust, who would go to a doctor?) so society and civilization would break down. What you are suggesting is regression, not progression.

[the_rake]

Yes, agreed - this post was essentially a troll (although I can't tell if you are now trolling me back!). But your points are worth addressing, so I have created another article with a more reasonable ideological stance.

[the_rake]

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22776-what-makes-a-confident-attractive-man

^this is the link

[hellionthesage]

A troll post only in so much as I looked for a discussion/argument. My statemens are not meant to incite emotions, only thought. Also a dislike for people who claim to be alpha males by simple fact that they are exhibiting the same behaviors as the so called beta males ie they fall all over themselves to attract and please women, they merely take a different approach. To me that isn't really very alpha just another kind of beta (not that I ascribe to these discriptions since as with nature there are multiple approaches and thus can not be summed up in the alpha/beta system)
As for the dog analogue I do feel its accurate to most situations, those who have little act as if they have much, those who have much don't act much like anything. This applies to everyhing, you don't see intellectuals talking about how much smarter then everyone else they are because they don't need to, they prove it with there actions.

[the_rake]

No... I meant MY post was a troll. Check out the link.

[hellionthesage]

I was actually reffering to my post/comment in response to your comment, "although I can't tell if you are now trolling me back!" Also I kind of suspected it was a troll post, the dead lift comment seemed a tad much.

[the_rake]

Hello, I have already replied on the other thread, however you raise some interesting discussion points. For instance, you are right about alpha males in so far as good leaders generally do not need to brag their achievements. You use the example of a Chihuahua (still if I was the Mastiff, I would not want the tiny vicious little thing attacking my nutsack from underneath!). This is all good about the Mastiff, but remember some dogs have 'bark' AND 'bite': Rottweilers and PitBulls are such examples. The 'bark' can induce great fear in an opponent, as can saying "I am the greatest, no-one can ever touch me" (Muhammad Ali, Mike Tyson, Floyd Mayweather... just to name a few!). A peacock's mating strategy is to boast it's reproductive fitness with a flutter of the feathers. A gorilla beats his chest and scares away his opponents. A puffer fish is was prey but nothing goes near it! There is also the positive psychology element of telling yourself that you are able, and suddenly, you CAN!

[the_rake]

But yes, many of these strategies are bluffing / strategic psychology in effect. You can't 'bluff' a genuine and authentic alpha male mindset, it's true. But it is not necessary - even as a well-natured leader (as opposed to tyrant) - to constantly down play one's achievements. Everybody needs to remind themselves about their achievements. Everybody requires public validation. Sometimes, the public need to be reminded of a leaders GOOD attributes in times that leader has made errors of judgement. Still, it is usually better to have others promote you than to promote oneself. A king is effectively saying "I am THE alpha male" when he wears a crown. But I digress. Ethics... society needs ethics for individuals topeacefully co-exist, and individuals need ethics in order to adapt to the demands of society. But there are times when the individual needs to realise his ambitions and in order to do so, must breach his ethics. This is what I mean by 'Machiavellianism'. It can also be referred to

[the_rake]

as 'consequentialism' - putting the bigger picture before abstract notions of 'ethics' (because who is to say what is 'right' or 'wrong' anyway?). In short I disagree that breaching the ethics of a society is necessarily detrimental. It can be the factor that proves a society's ethic as 'inferior' when compared to the civil progress of another society employing different ethics. Sometimes it is that breach of commonly accepted ethical codes that is required for humans to think about and revise the way they are doing things. (Sort of like my Troll, if you will excuse me for taking the time to narcissistically self-indulge. Of course, not everyone would concur, but I digress...)

[hellionthesage]

Some dogs do have bark and bite but rarely (unless trained otherwise) Do they actively seek out people to prove they have bite. As for "to constantly down play one's achievements." I am not suggesting down playing ones achievments but rather simply not gloating about it. People gravitate towards those who have ability but also try and enhance the abilities of others. So that doesn't mean not acknowledging it but rather acknowledging it and acknowledging it was due to hard work, maybe a little luck, and that you can do it to if you work hard enough. That kind of mentality was what I was reffering to. I was not stating breaching a code of ethics was wrong but rather breaching trust was. If you activley place yourself first this will cause others not to trust you since obviously your not going to have there best interest in mind. Its the machevellian breaches (which you described) that are the issue not alterations to an ethical code with the intent to benefit others.

[hellionthesage]

Some times however, alteration to the code of which a society conducts itself is detrimental regardless of intent. We alter things with the intent of good but because we do not fully understand the many factors at play we end up causing more damage (communism could be an example of this, good intentions but they did not understand human phycology and motivations)
Also as you mention yes, you should look out for yourself but it should not be to the detriment of others. You are as important as others and should function in that capacity obviously going to any extreme is going to have a negative impact.

[GirlsLie]

I just cringe when I hear the words "alpha male".

Everything in regards to dating comes across so fake to me. People are putting on a specific personality to impress everyone else.

It must be a miserable experience to never be comfortable being who you really are and not having to learn to "become" something else.

[the_rake]

With all due respect there is no greater journey than the path towards alpha maledom. It is the holy grail for all men. There is no persona or act: a true, authentic alpha male is the real deal, the borsalino hat.

Regards: a true alpha

[ihatethiswebsite]

I laugh so hard every time someone calls them self an alpha. It just comes off as so insecure lol

[GirlsLie]

Something being your preference, doesn't make it the ideal. Not every man has to be the way you want them to be and not every woman wants or needs a man to be that way. You do realize that once you start obeying what society thinks you should be (an alpha male), that you're nothing more than a follower who is doing what he's told to do.

[the_rake]

Respectfully feminist society does not want me to become an alpha, it wants me to conform to beta maledom to give women more power.

[GirlsLie]

I'm convinced that you're some odd combination of robot and troll lol

[the_rake]

I can confirm that while I have been likened to both by virtue of my steel heart and brutal but great, manly physique, I am neither.

Regards, a true alpha male.

[Scrambledagain]

"It must be a miserable experience... to "become" something else" that line is interesting because conversely, that's what destroys "nice guys". Who a shy/nice guy is by definition doesn't attract anyone or anything and you learn that what you are isn't accepted to get your needs met. That's misery (hence frustrated nice guys). I believe in the "alpha philosophy" and think men should change in this direction. Not in the take owners way, but it's far more productive than say a nice guy who has to settle for the scraps left by their more dominant brothers.

[GirlsLie]

I don't think being a "nice" guy limits you to anything honestly. I think there are lots of women who would/do like "nice" guys.

There's a difference between nice and being a push over and nice and not being confident in who you are. Being "nice" to someone you're dating or in a relationship with is commonly expected, you have to bring more to a relationship than that, a lot of those guys are too busy catering to women and become push overs or lose themselves and their other personality traits by being too nice.

Nice isn't all you have to be to attract a woman and neither is being an "alpha male".

[GirlsLie]

@Scrambledagain

I always forget to tag lol

[the_rake]

I agree nice men do tend to be pushovers. Alpha maledom is everything that is required to attract a woman.

[GirlsLie]

Until you meet a woman that expects more than just leadership or domination from a relationship. That will only get you so far and once she gets bored or smothered then you will be pushed to the side as well.

[the_rake]

I have yet to meet a woman bored by my alpha maledom, or a woman that pushed me - as a true alpha male - aside. I have always been the one to push aside.

[GirlsLie]

Well that's because you're most likely only attracting women who are attracted to that type of personality and who don't need or require anything else from a relationship. Just because women stay, doesn't mean they are truly happy.

[the_rake]

Yes, this is true: I am attracted only to the most feminine of women.

[GirlsLie]

Being feminine has nothing to do with being submissive though.

[the_rake]

It is the very essence - hence the frail and feminine attributes often associated by writers with darkness, beauty (of a frail flower). Yes, women are submissive it is part of their biology.

[Scrambledagain]

@GirlsLie here is the dilemma with nice guys. They do not spark attraction or sexual chemistry. They could be everything a girl wants long term, but they don't spark attraction. A nice guy can't be a player, or have the sex life he wants if he wants multiple partners (he settles for the one). Whereas an alpha is an umbrella term for leadership traits. Women fuck power in whatever form. it could be bad for them, but it attracts them That attraction is key. Alphas attract women. Nice guys settle with that girl who finally see's their easy going coolness. But no man deserves or should wait for that.

[Anonymous]

Abandon Feminism?

Such idiocy only means you do not know the history of this country or the tragedies women face all over the world.

Don't blame women for male emasculation, we do not possess the ability to control minds. Guys, either you're going to be masculine or not, it's your life, your choice. Place the blame where it belongs, which is on yourself &/or your father.

"Markets are king so fuck ethics... it's kill or get eaten"

Top notch dumbass advise right there. How are you going to network, build a company, or secure a business deal if you can't be trusted? No one ever makes it to the top on their own.

"After that you need to move her location to location before she has a chance to think. This is how you get her back to your apartment where you need to be dominant and sexually escalate otherwise she will lose interest."

Yes, give guys advice on how to catch a rape charge! Brilliant lol!

Everything else is pretty much common sense. Some get it, some don't. Eh...

[the_rake]

Hello,

1. Yes, feminism tells men that alpha maledom is shameful. Men are expected to subjugate themselves, paying handouts, childcare and women will often get jobs they are not qualified for thanks to positive discrimination.
2. Pick the strong as your allies and obliterate your foes before working your way up the corporate conglomerate.
3. Please explain to me where rape was suggested.

[farscryer0]

sat·ire

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noun: satire

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plural noun: satires

Example: "a stinging satire on American politics"

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informalspoof, takeoff, sendup

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•(in Latin literature) a literary miscellany, especially a poem ridiculing prevalent vices or follies.

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[the_rake]

I never used the word 'satire' myself. If you want me to explain the troll in more detail I'm happy to.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22776-what-makes-a-confident-attractive-man

[the_rake]

That said, the take is probably compatible with all of those satirical elements.

e. g.
It encompasses a ridiculed exaggeration of the men's right activism (specifically MGTOW) while constructing a hyperboled straw man of feminism.

this has triggered heated arguments from people belonging from different ideological corners (all of them misinterpreting the various and many blurred lines and all of them essentially overreacting to an ideological position that isn't tea and that I made up)

More specifically it is a troll because it makes a comedy out of the 'battle sexes' - men who complain about life and women on sites like these, not to mention women who wish they could get a 'nice guy' but act antagonistically. I have essentially been successful I 'bating' these opposing camps into a ridiculous and stereotyped debate.

THAT is what's so hilarious.

[the_rake]

*that isn't real, not 'that isn't tea' LOL

[Pampered]

I don't agree with feminism at all but for some reason I still don't agree with this take. I don't think women and men are as primal and simple as you're making them out to be. I think we used to but there's a thing called evolution. I like being bought things, catered to, etc (if you couldn't tell by my name) but my boyfriend is what most guys would consider "beta" and he still turns me on. He makes more money than me but barely spends it and saves all the time. I didn't date him for that reason, it was because he impressed me by how well spoken he was. He seemed like a smart guy which I found rare in my area, where everyone's on drugs or partying or pregnant. I dated "alphas" in high school only to impress my friends but they were jerks! Never again. I would date one if they were still gentlemen but that's usually not the case..

[the_rake]

Yes, it is true that beta males often find a way to fill in the provider gap of the hunter-provider male. This way they can use money to create the illusion of status. It is the main beta male mating strategy, in fact.

[Pampered]

He barely pays for me though, it's actually pretty even most of the time. I said I was initially interested in him because he was smart while most people in my town seem dumb. I've met rich guys but they were pompous assholes and completely turned me off. It sounds like you're going to believe what you want to believe and hear what you want to hear, so this comment's going to be wasted on you.

[the_rake]

I hate to break it to you but this whole thing was just a troll...

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22776-what-makes-a-confident-attractive-man

[Pampered]

Thank god. I actually know guys like this but he went kinda extreme. Should have known smh

[Pampered]

but you** didn't know you were the owner lolol

[Pampered]

Thanks for letting me know. I was kinda upset :)

[the_rake]

That's ok lol. Sorry to be a dick your boyfriend sounds like a nice guy.

[TheDevilInside]

How to become an alpha male: don't give a single flying fuck about all this "alpha male" talk and thinks that this take is genuinely stupid.

A true alpha male is secure even if he's wearing pink and doesn't need to give him self a Labels just to make himself feel superior than any other guys. Labeling your self an "alpha male" just for wusses. Get it?

[RandomUsername3464]

OMG an alpha male doesn't wear pink. I don't consider myself one yet I would never wear pink. Why are you trying to get guys to wear pink?

[TheDevilInside]

I'm not. I was just saying that real men still feels secure doing 'non manly stuff' because they still know they're a true man even if they shave their body hairs, wear pink, or opens up about his feelings.

[TheDevilInside]

@randomusername3464

[the_rake]

As a true alpha male I can confirm that I do indeed wear pink.

[the_rake]

Traditionally in fact, pink was considered a vibrant masculine colour and therefore it was thought to be more of a boys colour.

[schnipdip]

"True alpha male" oh lord, hahahaha. The only thing alpha about you is your ego.

[TheDevilInside]

5555555 --> this is how the Thais laugh.

[the_rake]

Hello,

Yes the ego is a propelling force for alphas such as myself who need ambition and a philosophical purpose.

[TheDevilInside]

"Alpha such as myself". Read my opinion again.

[the_rake]

Yes, an alpha male can state his dominant status like a king can wear a crown or a peacock can brandish it's feathers.

Regards - a true alpha male.

[TheDevilInside]

Lol a guy who cannot accept that people See things differently than he is. He is not an alpha male, just a douchebag.

Next time, don't vorher writing a "take" if you can't accept contradicting opinions.

[the_rake]

Hello, this is not true: I can accept others have different opinions even if they are not correct, you are entitled to your own.

[TheDevilInside]

Yeah? So just accept mine then and shit the hell up and stop talking like a fake Knight in a failing play.

[the_rake]

Accepting that you think wrongly does not mean I wish to be silent. In fact it merely makes me want to preach the truth about my dominant status.

Regards - a true alpha male

[TheDevilInside]

Truth my ass. Delusional is delusional. Drop the markers, kid.

[AdamThomas]

"Real men feel secure and masculine even when they dress and act like women".

*facepalm*

[Mustachekitteh]

I do not agree with "the men approach women not the other way around."If that was true I would never be in the amazing relationship I'm in now. Since my boyfriend doesn't talk to people for no reason. So I made the first move and I'm really glad I did.

Also the whole alpha beta bullshit is just stupid. Who cares just be yourself and stop putting lame labels. Anyone who labels themselves that way comes off as stupid. Since intelligent people wouldn't give a crap.

[the_rake]

You're right: it's all bs - a troll. The mytake explains all: www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22776-what-makes-a-confident-attractive-man

[RJGraveyTrain]

Uh sir, once again, you didn't properly read my take. My take didn't suggest the NEED for alpha males, it talked about the DIFFERENCE between wanting dominance vs. leadership, which I explained to you. Just so people don't misunderstand.

[RJGraveyTrain]

I invite you to try and reread it so you understand what the actual message was. It didn't say: BE DOMINANT. I suggested that people were misconstruing the difference between wanting dominance and somebody who has leader-like traits.

[the_rake]

Hello, I did understand perfectly well, I merely read deeper into your intended meaning: you want a man like Christian Grey to take control in your life, make decisions for you. I find it truly inspiring... never be ashamed about your feminine desire to submit to a man of great dominance.

Kudos to you

[RJGraveyTrain]

LOL!!! You're fucking delusional. Christian Grey is a laughable character and I certainly don't allow anyone (let alone a man) to rule my life. You sir are completely seeing things from a very twisted perspective.

[AvalanceJD]

Why the argument? I read her take by the way it's simple and makes sense. She said the clear difference between being dominant and having leadership skills. That's not wrong actually. While you thought she just used excuses to cover the need for a dominant man, annoying the person even more LOL !

Guys ! It all depends on someone's personality. Some would want dominance others not. Ok cool big deal. I think it's best to listen to your partner if you have no clue at some things let the other one be a leader. Big damn deal. It goes both way, like that it always have to be about total control over the other person. Don't make it more complicated than it is.

[jjmarvin]

@AvalanceJD i find it interesting that you're defending your reading comprehension skills while mistakenly talking to one person as if she were two.

[AvalanceJD]

@jjmarvin I was talking to both. But LMAO.

[jjmarvin]

@AvalanceJD there was only one person

[AvalanceJD]

@jjmarvin 2 people. RJ and Rake (opinion owner and mytake owner)

[ThePragmaticRomantic]

Worrying about being an 'alpha male' is like worrying about being 'cool'. If you're thinking about it, you arn't.
It's also a painful oversimplification of a complex social structure, it's been rather a long time since humanity has dwelt in small family groups with a linier structure. Society ever twists and turns, often making many 'alpha male' tendencies actively undesirable.

[the_rake]

Yes it is true that the modern day alpha must adapt to the demands of 21st century feminist fascism.

[TheDevilInside]

Lol this take owner dude talks like he lives in the 16th century
Or like a guy roleplaying for a Drama set in the 16th century... Role: fake Knight in Aluminium foil armor.

[the_rake]

Hello, yes I have been likened to a knight by some. This is by virtue of my true dominant alpha male status.

[alibaba42]

i dont understand what exactly an alpha male is? thre is no such thing as an alpha male in 2015. An alpha male is one who dominates his territory and he would have fought for the right to the females within it.

that is just not what humans are like in 2015. In any case, if you embraced all of the concepts above, you will not have time for anything else in life, and you'll be severely mentally challenged.

No, an alpha male is simply a man who naturally earns the respect, affection and admiration of a large proportion of the males and females he knows. There is no rulebook and no one way to go about it.

[the_rake]

Alpha males can adapt to their context (modern alphas are businessmen, politicians, etc) but regardless, this take wasn't intended seriously, hence I wrote a separate take explaining the troll.

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22776-what-makes-a-confident-attractive-man

[PT1911]

All agree except #3

Mostly because I have been in martial arts since I was a kid, brute force don't mean shit if you don't know how to apply it, and on a visual level, its... egh. I've been in fights with bigger/stronger people, and I'm already decent (5'11, 225 lbs, more on the chubbier side,) but still I'm better trained and conditioned than a lot out there.

Point is, see what you want, take it, and light the world on fire because you fucking can.

[the_rake]

Yes, hence I emphasised physicality AND self-defence. There are many elements that win a fight - aggression, psychology, experience and technical discipline. But physicality has other benefits for the alpha: status, authority and attractiveness to name a few.

[PT1911]

Fair enough, just didn't like the picture ha-ha

[the_rake]

No? Deadlifts are a superb exercise. Ed Coan was the best deadlifter in his day - an alpha male legend. I find the picture awe inspiring.

[mexborough]

because you lak confidence dude..

[the_rake]

@mexborough with all due respect, I have plenty.

[mexborough]

i disagree haha...

[the_rake]

@mexborough you are welcome to your opinion, but I must inform you that this does not make it fact.

Best regards - a true alpha male.

[PT1911]

@mexborough

Were you talking to me or the take owner?

[the_rake]

I believe the man was talking to me. However I am used to this sort of behaviour: beta males are always trying to undermine the authority of true alpha males such as myself.

[MaskedSanity]

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[the_rake]

Thankyou, thankyou *bows*

[musicbrain5]

My troll meter is really going off the charts with this one. Nobody besides a troll would constantly refer to himself as a "true alpha male" in every comment.

[the_rake]

Well thank you! You were one of a few. Here is the new mytake

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22776-what-makes-a-confident-attractive-man

[M_A_X]

No, he's probably serious, honestly

[dartmaul15]

you lost me when claiming YOU are an alpha.

The alphas of this world is people like marc zucherberg, putin, gabe newell, bill gates... people with POWER, power that COUNTS! People everyone know has power, people who don't need to say "i am the king".

Because that's what you do. You say "i am the king", but keep forgetting that "he who need to say 'i am the king' is no true king".

[the_rake]

Hello, you are indeed correct. May I refer you to my other take, should you have time?

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22776-what-makes-a-confident-attractive-man

Regards - the_rake

[dartmaul15]

you know, i kinda love when guys post takes like this. Because they're so wrong, and the girls keep shooting him down.
And overal the dude's making an ass of himself XD

I'm curious, what is even an alpha male?

[the_rake]

And the guys also :P

Yea I had a LOT of fun with this but its time to stop.

Well an 'alpha male' as I see it is a high status man with authority, charisma and leadership. He can be good or bad. He doesn't necessarily need to be some politician or corporate executive, just someone who gets what he wants.

People are saying that you can't refer to yourself as one, but I don't see the big deal. As long as you understand the man makes the title and not the other way around (to paraphrase another user).

[dartmaul15]

the problem with reffering to youself as one is that 99% of the time it's a pary jock who thinks "alpha male" means being a bullying duchebag who tricks his way into the pussy.

in my opinion being an alpha male is not about being able to force someone, but rather about being a person they WANT to follow out of free choice. That makes you an alpha; being the natural and skilled leader of the pack.
And if you're that, then you don't need to claim it, because you know it and everyone else know and want it to be like that.

makes sense?

[the_rake]

Yes, like I said you can have 'good' alphas and 'bad' alphas. And that is all the more reason for 'good' alphas to remove misconceptions by explaining what it really means to be a man of high status.

[dartmaul15]

can we just call them "tyrant" and "leader". gives it a more lear connotation XD

[the_rake]

Sure, whatever eases the confusion. In my new take they (collectively) are simply men of high status. Did you get the fact it was just a troll though?

[dartmaul15]

was a bit unsure if you were trolling or legit stupid. mainly due to the fact most of the people posting like that are legit stupid (all brawn and no brain)

[the_rake]

fair dos

[abzence]

Just out of curiosity. What is the end game of being a "true alpha male?"

I mean, once you have established total dominance and control over everybody else, accumulated all the wealth that will last a hundred life times and have more women that you have time to be with. What then?

Is being a "true" alpha simply an endless journey to accumulate said "commodities" ad infinitum? Or perhaps all this is just for the purpose of more opportunities for reproduction?

[the_rake]

Yes - our legacy will pass down generations of men that accept our values.

[abzence]

So the end purpose of being an alpha is more reproduction? Does that mean that men in 3rd world countries that have 10-15 children are all alphas?

[the_rake]

Yes, the chieftains of the tribe are often alphas and live polygynous lifestyles with the most wealth, status and women in the tribe.

[abzence]

I'm not talking about tribes and chieftains here. I'm talking about the fact that the average person in 3rd world countries have much more children than most in the western countries. So if the goal of an alpha is to reproduce then these people are winning the alpha game.

[the_rake]

The goal is to be alpha (wealth, status and women) then to reproduce alpha male offspring.

[abzence]

Okay. So what happens to the female offspring since the goal is to get male alpha offspring?

[the_rake]

The attractive feminine women will reproduce with alphas, hence helping to spread the alpha gene.

[abzence]

I see. But you must wait quite some time before you can determine if your daughters are attractive or just average. And you know that average is not good enough for an alpha. Will you dispose of the unattractive ones when it becomes apparent, or perhaps they become like servants?

[the_rake]

The unattractive ones can be sold off as maids or wives to beta males.

[OrdinaryGentleman]

https://agarioskins.com/img/skin/4chan.png
you belong here.
I congratulate you on this my_take but based on your other my_takes you seem to simply say what you've been saying in a more direct fashion.

[the_rake]

Ok!

I can actually appreciate that it may seem this way but I did highlight in the other my_take (the one about what makes a confident attractive man) there may be certain ideas or tennets that I agree with in this my_take even if they have been ridiculed or hyperboled. That's because sometimes it's funny to self-deprecate as well.

[genericname85]

a "real" alpha male can cry, wear a pink dress and a tiara while giving a blowjob to one guy, a handjob to two other guys at once, take one up the butt and make a sandwich with his feet, all at the same time.

most imporatantly, an alpha male wouldn´t follow a "gag take" on how to become an alpha male, because he allready fucking is! you can´t "become" an alpha male. you are or you are not.

and guess what, he doesn´t care what others say. HE is the alpha not the others. HE says what´s alpha or not. why would a wolf care for what the sheep say?

[the_rake]

Yes it's all true, please see this mytake explaining the troll:

www.girlsaskguys.com/.../a22776-what-makes-a-confident-attractive-man

[genericname85]

a true alpha male does not need to read shit on how to be an attractive man!

just kidding :D i hope you enjoyed my satire a bit too ;)

[the_rake]

Haha fuck you! nah I guess I deserve it LOL

[genericname85]

so i got you there :D nice that´s a compliment ^^ thanks.

[the_rake]

Haha... I'm was to troll :P

[the_rake]

*I'm easy to troll :P

[genericname85]

i love talking shit like that but i pity people who actially think that way XD

[the_rake]

Essentially yes - one of the funniest things was the way so many of the male critiques probably fit into the same macho douchebag stereotype that they were criticising. I think you got that element down to a tee: a real alpha male wouldn't walk around calling himself one, but he probably wouldn't care much about putting other people down for using it.

[RedThread]

ugh whenever I hear the terms alpha or beta male I vomit in my mouth a bit..

I by no means fit the standard of an "alpha" or traditional male but I still get attention from women.. Why? Because I treat them with dignity and respect and I don't behave like a modern day caveman.

[the_rake]

Yes, it is true that beta males have strategies for escaping the friend zone. If this was not the case, they would not reproduce and there would not be beta males.

[RedThread]

Ah thank you sensei.

[the_rake]

That is no problem: as an alpha male, I always am happy to spread my wisdom.

[Anonymous]

Oh yeah, I voted in that first link poll "I don't believe in the whole alpha/beta make thing". I want a decent human being as a partner, that treats me with respect, and I will treat him with respect.

[the_rake]

Yes alpha males know how to keep their women happy.

[RandomUsername3464]

Nice encouraging take, brah. With all these damn takes on here that tell us guys that we basically we need to serve women and change everything about ourselves to suit them, this is a refreshing break from the ordinary crap.

[the_rake]

Thankyou,

I am glad someone sees this.

[GreatnessPersonified]

1. true
2. "Hold eye contact longer than other people," I have a tendency to want to fight about it.
3. true. I'm a small guy, with hard bones, and a mean demeanor.
4. true. Trained in every martial art I could find.
5. I care not for money, I WANT POWER!!!
6. As Set Kaiba once said, "Screw the rules, I have money!!"
7. thank god someone said it.

funny take, good stuff!!

[the_rake]

I see you have the makings of a true alpha. As an equal I commend you although resent the idea that this take is a joke. And money IS power. All else aside, a fantastic contribution. Regards.

[GreatnessPersonified]

Money is not Power. Money is money, power is power.
I've seen people with money, and if I can go up to them and beat them to an inch of their life, then their money means nothing.

Besides, the only power I seek is True Power!!!

"although resent the idea that this take is a joke."

I never said it was a joke. I found it amusing, someone else said that, but whatever.

[the_rake]

Well if you have the skills to single handedly defeat my armies and apaches you must have greater physical prowess than the great chuck Norris. You must be a true alpha indeed.

[schnipdip]

You have an army? And an apache? Wow

[the_rake]

@schnipdip yes and I have a sniper tower with elite gun men manning AWPs and SSGs. I also am a share holder in my country's nuclear weapons program. So you see: I am a true alpha.

[schnipdip]

Oh yeah? I doubt that

[the_rake]

@schnipdip it is true.

[schnipdip]

Oh? The fact that you're trying to brag about it proves you're neither alpha nor have it.
An Alpha does not need to brag he is alpha. You are as beta as they come.

[the_rake]

Hello, I embrace and proudfully state my alpha maledom in the same way a peacock struts it's beauty. It is simply a statement of truth and somewhat therapeutic to me to hear about my own virtues given how difficult it can be being a true alpha male.

Regards, a truly dominant man.

[AvalanceJD]

Irrelevant although i agree with some things. So if a man has all of these for example, but doesn't like approaching due to his own personality for his own reasons not from fear of rejection and a woman did it for him once, she gets respect in her relationship with him later. He isn't an "Alpha" ? Are we wolves?

I've seen similar cases of people. Don't think who they're more successful. Each to his own personality and life.

[the_rake]

Hello,

Yes your intuition is correct: a true alpha always makes the first move. It is hardwired into his nature as a hunter -provider

[AvalanceJD]

We still have instincts as animals but i think we moved far from that. Our nature and way of life changed all that. Maybe that's why you see, less and less "Alphas". We're going to a different path.

A friend keeps telling me that's in a man's nature to be with many women. Many women will freak out as they read this. Although i feel i have no need to follow that, controling instincts and our will is what makes us different than beasts. But i respect your point of view.

[the_rake]

Channel your instinct so you become the very best you can.