How to be a true Gentleman

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How to be a true Gentleman


Ok so I have done a myTake recently that spoke about how being a gentleman is not sexist, but it appears no one knows what a gentleman truly is.


There are two sides to being a gentleman honestly


One is the way you act in everyday life towards the world. The other is a way you act upon a date. Firstly let us speak of how one should hold himself in everyday life. One must refrain from using foul language and know how to hold your tongue. You should always be polite to anyone who passes by you during the day, whether they are female or not. Be willing to lend a hand to anyone who needs it, whether they are male or female. One should be courteous to everyone they meet. In general treat everyone with the upmost respect.


Now to the second portion. This is the part most people target as sexist, but I assure you it is not. When on a date it is the up most importance for the gentleman to be on his best behaviour. You must cater to the lady's needs. Remember a lady is like anyone else. She is human and may have different wants than other ladies. It is customary to open and even hold doors open for your lady. It is also customary for one to get up when the lady is leaving the table to see her off. When the tab for the date comes offer to pay for it. If she insists on paying let her. You are entitled to being cared for and being shown respect as well. As a reminder never forget that the lady in your life is a capable human being that has wants and dreams her self. It is your duty as a gentleman go hold her up and support her. As well remember she has the desire to care for you as much as you for her.


Now all in all a gentleman means that you show respect for everyone in life. As a gentleman you should always avoid conflict and show compassion. Now somewhere along the way many people forgot what it was to be a gentleman. Many have forgotten the true ways due to others actions. It is up to all gentlemen to take up the role and show them differently.

How to be a true Gentleman
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