A lot of this makes sense. #50 I totally disagree with. Girlyness is a stereotype made up by society. I have no desire for women like that what so ever. #10 not true either girls think about guys a lot it's about the same.
Wow, just wow... some things were on point, but a lot were absolute fails... especially #10 like @FlyingTurtle suggested... that is just completely opposite.
1. True... but thats not the reason why. you messed up when you used the word "feelings". dont forget... he won't like you either if you are a clingy naggy bitch either 2. True.. girls try to form perfection, watching them slip makes us realize they are just as human as we are. Not goddesses like some moron guys seem to make girls. 3. Bullshit. Bull effin shit. that is absolute fantasy. a smart guy would move on. women today ain't worth the effort. If after your word, they still try to play games, move on. 4. You should flip that. because last i checked, its women that had the "herd" mentality. 5. You made that sound like 2 different things but... true 6. First off.. we dont "like it".. but we are smart enough to ask for female advice from females... unlike females who when they want advice on guys... ask OTHER females... smh 7. This one is just dumb. If they like her.. they like the personality and that is what they talk about to buddies. You would be amazed at the percentage of girls that have NO personality because they think they can just get by on looks... and then are offended when a surface-minded guy just wants to have sex only. 8. Keyword "by"... side by side 9. lol... stare? try observe 10. No we dont. we honestly do not. Until one of our 3 needs is activated... we dont. and one of those 3 needs.. is for the girls to disappear. so make that 2 needs. No we dont.
11. If he liked it.. yea.. if not.. he starts weighing her liability. 12. ... And if he is a fucking amateur. A pro doesn't even make a fucking plan. 13. Wanna know why? Nature. Its stronger in men than women. 14. No... keep your fucking strawberry lavender rosey smell off my jacket AND shirt. 15. Yes, when they know its not going to stick to their clothes. 16. "love to"? Please refer to number 9. 17. always? the problem is not his interest... its her lack of it.. or sense of entitlement to pick and choose. 18. I mean really... who doesn't. its not the guy that has fury like hell when scorned.. 19. Sigh... this is the first thing so far that fucking makes TRUE sense 20. Negative. We think about sleep. 21. Negative squared. we wouldn't want the sex stop. 22. It would nice if women would actually start telling rather that signing... i guess they that evolved or intelligent yet. And guys aren't blind to the dumb ass signs... we are waiting and hoping that she is smart enough to use her MOUTH to convey a message. 23. We actually like both... what we dont like is when she doesn't know when to stop.. or when it goes on too long. (i personally have broken a lot of hearts for that particular stupidity in females) 24. Would YOU want to be? 25. Sigh... so close to the actual ego hit.. but no cigar. maybe for amateurs. 26. doesn't it draw women too? 27. True. We dont wanna hear the issues... but the bigger part is we need you to shut the hell up and stop making so much damn noise.
28. See... now this... you can tell the rest of these dumbass girls. 29. ... or he is just disgusted. Just like girls watch "creeps"...(the fucking morons... he's interested but she doesn't like him, so he's a creep. but if she likes him and he is staring at her all the time, its flattery... morons) 30. I can say with at least 89% certainty... he doesn't give a fuck. these days its just a courtesy and a prevention. no one wants to hear "my eyes are up here" 31. Now you make us sound like women. Women only do shit in order to get something back... if your man goes out of his way to surprise you... one would think its common sense to reciprocate... not some complicated plot/ploy. 32. How do you know its serious? 33. **ERRRRRR**!!! Maybe during the honeymoon phase... but after that.. please refer to number 10. 34. But why would she want to do that? matter of fact... i think any man or woman who tries to turn their partner against family... is more of a threat than a blessing. that stupid option..."its either me or them"... lol... i hoped they enjoyed that layer of salt i left... looking salty as hell. I've known them longer than you and you have the nerve to rack up an ultimatum? 35. Hmm.. i like that you said highly likely... but its also possible that he is eager and earnest. 36. ... Yea.. except girls dont tend to give a fuck because apparently guys dont have feelings. 37. Where did you pluck this nonsense from? he'd just pull the rip cord and leave you sitting in the dirt. simple. 38. Define..."Bad". 39. Wrong. what SHE needs to do is learn to hang with the fellas or dont come to the meeting.. I mean "When in Rome..." right? 40. What was your first fucking clue? just because its hidden, doesn't mean it doesn't exist. Matter of fact, i agree.. because our shit is pent up from years of being told to hold it back.
41. ... dont forget their surroundings and friends. but to be honest, there ARE some smart women who learn from experience too. Sadly, they turn around and punish the next guy lol. 42. I think you give us too much credit... i just call us dumb. 43. Neither will that bitch 44. ... unless your personality sucks... then a big ass and some titties help just as well. 45. Again... amateurs 46. At least you know ours is little... because the girls' test takes for.. fucking.. ever. Never little. and most times... they last forever. 47. Ok... lets talk about the neat aspect... depends on what they are eating... and yes, we do like seeing girls eat.. if we paid for the shit. no wasting. 48. Very true... also.. it helps the process of elimination 49. And Girls will always bitch about those days 50. If you are chilling... there is no gender involved.
I can't believe that I actually ran through all 50 of your thoughts but im SICK and TIRED of women TRYING to TELL OTHER girls HOW to judge or be with or keep a man. I have been preaching the same tired speech for almost a decade... just learn the THREE NEEDS... that LITERALLY is all you need to get AND keep a man.
I agree with questions 7, 9, 12, 17, 18, 24, 26 and 47. The only 2 I disagree with is # 10: guys think about girls way more than girls think about guys. I don't believe that. I think it's the other way around
I think you just say that because your bio time clock is getting louder. these young girls these days think of nothing but themselves... and then they try to use looks to gain it. thats not the part that irritates me... the irritation is that men/boys/whatever... actually buy it. hereby making it "okay" for these idiots to think they are in the right. The actual truth is that guys dont give a shit about girls until they are present... and when they are present...2 of our 3 needs get activated. That being said... im not sure which gender thinks of the other more... and to flip that script... when they each like someone... i believe they think about THAT person just as much.
21- Men are quite often very sexual beings. My testosterone levels are off the chart(medically proven, and losing hair big time), and I always want sex. Doesn't mean I do not care about the girl.
And we really hate a tease... so much so that I've actually spent a lot of time and effort to get those teases for payback, make them think they're all that, and dump'em hard!
Oh, and we do like plain, spoken language. No hints or insinuations.
Don't lead us on and then turn back. If you give us your phone number without us asking, then make sure you want to be more than friends, because if you don't you will have us angry and turn us off.
I have to say some of the things here completely hit the mark. It really depends on the guy though. Good effort on the list~ it made me realize some things about me lol
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A lot of this makes sense. #50 I totally disagree with. Girlyness is a stereotype made up by society. I have no desire for women like that what so ever. #10 not true either girls think about guys a lot it's about the same.
Wow, just wow... some things were on point, but a lot were absolute fails... especially #10 like @FlyingTurtle suggested... that is just completely opposite.
1. True... but thats not the reason why. you messed up when you used the word "feelings".
dont forget... he won't like you either if you are a clingy naggy bitch either
2. True.. girls try to form perfection, watching them slip makes us realize they are
just as human as we are. Not goddesses like some moron guys seem to make girls.
3. Bullshit. Bull effin shit. that is absolute fantasy. a smart guy would move on.
women today ain't worth the effort. If after your word, they still try to play games, move on.
4. You should flip that. because last i checked, its women that had the "herd" mentality.
5. You made that sound like 2 different things but... true
6. First off.. we dont "like it".. but we are smart enough to ask for female advice from
females... unlike females who when they want advice on guys... ask OTHER females... smh
7. This one is just dumb. If they like her.. they like the personality and that is what they
talk about to buddies. You would be amazed at the percentage of girls that have NO personality
because they think they can just get by on looks... and then are offended when a surface-minded
guy just wants to have sex only.
8. Keyword "by"... side by side
9. lol... stare? try observe
10. No we dont. we honestly do not. Until one of our 3 needs is activated... we dont. and
one of those 3 needs.. is for the girls to disappear. so make that 2 needs. No we dont.
11. If he liked it.. yea.. if not.. he starts weighing her liability.
12. ... And if he is a fucking amateur. A pro doesn't even make a fucking plan.
13. Wanna know why? Nature. Its stronger in men than women.
14. No... keep your fucking strawberry lavender rosey smell off my jacket AND shirt.
15. Yes, when they know its not going to stick to their clothes.
16. "love to"? Please refer to number 9.
17. always? the problem is not his interest... its her lack of it.. or sense of entitlement to
pick and choose.
18. I mean really... who doesn't. its not the guy that has fury like hell when scorned..
19. Sigh... this is the first thing so far that fucking makes TRUE sense
20. Negative. We think about sleep.
21. Negative squared. we wouldn't want the sex stop.
22. It would nice if women would actually start telling rather that signing... i guess they
that evolved or intelligent yet. And guys aren't blind to the dumb ass signs... we are waiting
and hoping that she is smart enough to use her MOUTH to convey a message.
23. We actually like both... what we dont like is when she doesn't know when to stop.. or
when it goes on too long. (i personally have broken a lot of hearts for that particular
stupidity in females)
24. Would YOU want to be?
25. Sigh... so close to the actual ego hit.. but no cigar. maybe for amateurs.
26. doesn't it draw women too?
27. True. We dont wanna hear the issues... but the bigger part is we need you to shut the
hell up and stop making so much damn noise.
28. See... now this... you can tell the rest of these dumbass girls.
29. ... or he is just disgusted. Just like girls watch "creeps"...(the fucking morons... he's
interested but she doesn't like him, so he's a creep. but if she likes him and he is staring
at her all the time, its flattery... morons)
30. I can say with at least 89% certainty... he doesn't give a fuck. these days its just a courtesy
and a prevention. no one wants to hear "my eyes are up here"
31. Now you make us sound like women. Women only do shit in order to get something back...
if your man goes out of his way to surprise you... one would think its common sense to
reciprocate... not some complicated plot/ploy.
32. How do you know its serious?
33. **ERRRRRR**!!! Maybe during the honeymoon phase... but after that.. please refer to number 10.
34. But why would she want to do that? matter of fact... i think any man or woman who tries to turn
their partner against family... is more of a threat than a blessing.
that stupid option..."its either me or them"... lol... i hoped they enjoyed that layer of salt
i left... looking salty as hell. I've known them longer than you and you have the nerve to rack
up an ultimatum?
35. Hmm.. i like that you said highly likely... but its also possible that he is eager and earnest.
36. ... Yea.. except girls dont tend to give a fuck because apparently guys dont have feelings.
37. Where did you pluck this nonsense from? he'd just pull the rip cord and leave you sitting
in the dirt. simple.
38. Define..."Bad".
39. Wrong. what SHE needs to do is learn to hang with the fellas or dont come to the meeting..
I mean "When in Rome..." right?
40. What was your first fucking clue? just because its hidden, doesn't mean it doesn't exist.
Matter of fact, i agree.. because our shit is pent up from years of being told to hold it back.
41. ... dont forget their surroundings and friends. but to be honest, there ARE some smart women
who learn from experience too. Sadly, they turn around and punish the next guy lol.
42. I think you give us too much credit... i just call us dumb.
43. Neither will that bitch
44. ... unless your personality sucks... then a big ass and some titties help just as well.
45. Again... amateurs
46. At least you know ours is little... because the girls' test takes for.. fucking.. ever. Never
little. and most times... they last forever.
47. Ok... lets talk about the neat aspect... depends on what they are eating...
and yes, we do like seeing girls eat.. if we paid for the shit. no wasting.
48. Very true... also.. it helps the process of elimination
49. And Girls will always bitch about those days
50. If you are chilling... there is no gender involved.
I can't believe that I actually ran through all 50 of your thoughts but im SICK and TIRED of women
TRYING to TELL OTHER girls HOW to judge or be with or keep a man. I have been preaching the same
tired speech for almost a decade... just learn the THREE NEEDS... that LITERALLY is all you need to get
AND keep a man.
I agree with questions 7, 9, 12, 17, 18, 24, 26 and 47. The only 2 I disagree with is # 10: guys think about girls way more than girls think about guys. I don't believe that. I think it's the other way around
Guys think about sex most of the time right. They don't think about having sex with ourselves they think about girls.
I think you just say that because your bio time clock is getting louder. these young girls these days think of nothing but themselves... and then they try to use looks to gain it. thats not the part that irritates me... the irritation is that men/boys/whatever... actually buy it. hereby making it "okay" for these idiots to think they are in the right.
The actual truth is that guys dont give a shit about girls until they are present... and when they are present...2 of our 3 needs get activated.
That being said... im not sure which gender thinks of the other more... and to flip that script... when they each like someone... i believe they think about THAT person just as much.
21- Men are quite often very sexual beings. My testosterone levels are off the chart(medically proven, and losing hair big time), and I always want sex. Doesn't mean I do not care about the girl.
And we really hate a tease... so much so that I've actually spent a lot of time and effort to get those teases for payback, make them think they're all that, and dump'em hard!
Oh, and we do like plain, spoken language. No hints or insinuations.
Don't lead us on and then turn back. If you give us your phone number without us asking, then make sure you want to be more than friends, because if you don't you will have us angry and turn us off.
I agree.. 3, 4, 5, 30, and 43 is wrong. 11 is right only when it applies to girls we really like and we are trying to figure out if she likes us.
Other than that I agree.. those are totally wrong.
I have to say some of the things here completely hit the mark. It really depends on the guy though. Good effort on the list~ it made me realize some things about me lol
If a guy is shy, then there's a chance that he may never make his move. This especially applies if he has been hurt before in his attempts.
Both genders give tests, that doesn't just apply to guys.
3, 5, 21, and 33 all BS.
If you really like a girl, cuddling is amazing, but sex+cuddling completes our world
#5 - what does that mean? if so many guys are saying its false, does that mean that some guys do ignore a girl they like? if so then why?
A guy ignores a. Girl they like only when he does not want to have a relationship with them
#3 and 10 are simply not true. #11 is true of girls more than it is of guys. And where's the rest of 35?
This really helps me....when I didn't understand what a guys actions towards me were I used this as a reference.
This article would have been good to me if it was called NICE GUYS! not all guys, because simply some these are dead wrong!! my opinion!
20. right before going to bed, they will think of the one girl they really care about
Yep - then I hold my wife's hand while we sleep.
This is nonsense!!
Drop your predjudices and try making friends with lots of guys. You'll learn that it's impossible to generalise!
I agree with Gintrovert. Especially 3, 4 , and 11 are so wrong.
But I think the rest is accurate, well done :)
I like this. its mainly true. haha as I was reading it. I was thinking of what I did to get my girl and it seems to be most of it. especially number 3
So this is obviously a women that think she knows everything and obviously does not, lol
In my opinion, not even most of these are remotely true.
Excellent... Doctor!!
You're now Ph. D. in this matter.