Focus on the Future, but don't DWELL on it
Don't spend every waking moment dreading over your finances and where you want to be in the future. Set little goals that you can achieve on a monthly, weekly, or daily basis. Those will give you moderate self-esteem boosts that will slowly pump you towards your goal Instead of overwhelming you with a longterm goal only that seems like a mountain of work to strive towards.
Surround yourself with people who care about you're interests
Ignore the America piece and take the rest here - Surround yourself with people who share your interests and an interest in you. Why give 100% of yourself to people who are only interested in themselves and gaining something from you? If you want to grow each day and become the strongest version of yourself, you must cut the weeds that hold back your development. Whatever you're passionate about or striving towards, find people with the same identifiers. That will not only broaden your outlook but will feed the fire inside your body and mind.
Enjoy your present state. Take some time to appreciate what you have, and what you've done.
Don't pass over little events and little achievements. Take each day by day as a step forward in the right direction. If you make a mistake in your diet or an error in your finances - don't beat yourself up for the next 15 hours. Accept what you did and learn from it. Don't berate yourself or belittle yourself mentally and physically in an effort to achieve cultural standards. Accept what you currently have, and what you've currently done and appreciate your progress with each day. No one man or woman is perfect. Everyone makes mistakes. If people were to give up after their first mistake, Michael Jordan would have never left his backyard basketball hoop - and Jennifer Lawrence would have never become a tremendously talented actress. The point is here, you must rewire your mindset. Focus on your negatives each day, and they will consume you. Think positively, appreciate yourself, and tally those achievements - Otherwise once you reach that " next moment " you'll realize you've always been trying to reach it, but never realized you were already in it.
Thats all. Just a little rant for today. Stay positive GaG. Eat well and lift for yourself. Grow your mind and body to hone the best version of yourself. Don't live up to societys standards or berate yourself in the mirror on a daily basis because of society's influences. You do you.
Abe out
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