Women DO Need Men: Strength, Leadership, Confidence

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Women DO need men and here is why

Guys, I may be a girl but let me share with you a little story that might inspire you. So please read on because what I learned, I want to pass on.



I used to be afraid. Of being myself.



Let me stop there.



Now, for the guys, if you think this is going to be a sobby story from a girl who "learned the true meaning of loving herself" then your right. But don't leave because its not what you might think. I actually learned how to love myself, not from watching confident women or the feminist you all despise so much, but from watching confident MEN.



Men, you inspire women, believe it or not. Your often seen as the heroes and I have no shame whatsoever in expressing that despite how much other women say they don't need men, we do. In this day and age, we may not need you to physically take care of us, but we need you mentally.we need to see that you are strong and capable to be the best man you can possibly be. That's why I say that this message is for all of you.



Anyway, I used to be afraid to be myself Initially I looked at women for guidance on becoming a good woman because I related to them. They had breast and they experienced the same things I did, what more reason did I need to pick sides. And for a long time, I looked to women to give me the confidence I needed to survive in life. And it was somewhat effective. But it wasn't enough.



Men, you have an upper hand and its no secret. I saw that, and I didn't despise it. I admired it. I emulated the confidence I saw in successful men. I may not have been a man, but whenever I felt like i needed support I would envision great men working beside me. Men are natural leaders so it wasn't hard to follow the lead of the successful men I admired so much.


Women DO Need Men: Strength, Leadership, Confidence


Women have been made out to be weak and in need of a man to physically support us. That's wrong though. We can physically work so we can get our own resources. We can birth children so were damn sure tough. We can do everything except give ourselves security and most of all, support. And the best way you can support a woman is not by whispering that you love her in the midtst of lovemaking, not by vowing not to cheat, not even by buying her a house and taking care of her for the rest of eternity.



The best way you can support a woman is to be the best man you can be. You don't even have to be with the woman, all you have to do is be something strong for her to look up to. You could be her father, her best friend, her next door neighbor it doesn't matter. Seeing strong men inspires us to be strong women FOR YOU. So be strong FOR US. We need each other and we need to support each other. We need to stop villianzing each other or treating each other like we don't matter.



Men, thats why women have a tendency to seek successful men. We start unconsciously thinking that they are the best they can be and will bring us security. But you don't need to be a millionaire or have fresh clothes.



We want you to lead us. Financially, sure we can do that. What we need more than anything is for you to be your best. Whatever you think your best self is I encourage you to try to be that.



I learned to love myself from having strong men surrounding me.



Dont think its a power you have over us. No, when you are strong your energy becomes the power we need to be strong as well.



Now, I can go on and on but I'm going to leave this mytake here for you all to think about.


Women DO Need Men: Strength, Leadership, Confidence
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