As a person who’s has always enjoyed visiting strip clubs since the age of eighteen, I think that like any normal human being out there I have my rights to be offended at the stigmas society has giving us. Yes, “us,” since I’m pretty sure I’m not alone here. It seems like everybody out there fails to see any positivity within us; they think any man out there who enjoys watching women dance around naked are automatically perverts, desperate losers, cheaters, pigs, non-dating material and the list goes on. So, I write this MyTake to hopefully shed some light on whoever reads and possibly change their views towards men who enjoy going to the strips for fun.
Anyways, getting to the point, the image above inspired me to write this article and believe me when I tell you that this isn’t the first time I've heard this. In fact, a real stripper once told me this herself before a lap dance. We had a few drinks and got to know each other a little better, she asked me what I like to do for fun and I told her I like playing video games and she told me does as well. From there, she told me that she once worked at Gamestop and that she did not like working there because a lot of the costumers there used to sexually assault her a lot. I was actually amazed and couldn’t believe her but she insisted it was all true, that guys at Gamestop would grab her ass at any given moment yet never once did this happen to her as a stripper.
So by now this should tell you something about us men who go to strip clubs. Yes, we may not be perfect but from the image above and the stripper’s experience I just spoke about, this obviously means we do have a lot positive traits and I am going to tell you about a few right now:
We know our boundaries… What goes on at the strip clubs stays at the strip clubs!
This is the main one. Men who visit strips know that what we do at the strips must stay at the strips at all costs, and this is basically the main reason why we go to these places in the first place. Think about it: what man does not desire to be in place where he can see naked sexy women from left to right dancing with pride? Or even have these same sexy women dance on him?
So with that said we men who go to strip clubs are perverts with boundaries:
· We are less likely to assault women sexually.
· we are able to control our sexual impulse a lot better than those who don’t visit the strips.
· We are less likely to sexually objectify women in public.
· We are less likely to be peeping toms.
· We don’t expect our girlfriends/wives to look as hot as the strippers we see.
All this because we know that we have a place where we can do all these things and we know that what goes on in the strip clubs must stay at the strip clubs.
We know the what we want
Putting it simply, men who go to strip clubs don’t go there looking for love, commitment, or relationships. We know damn well that strippers are not dating material, so we only go there to have some fun and enjoy ourselves at being the perverts we are. However, this does not mean we treat women outside the strip clubs the same way.
We know the difference between love and lust
I’m sorry if I sound like a broken record but again, we men who go to strip clubs know that what goes on at the strip clubs stays at the strip club. Therefore, if a man visits the strip club, it obviously means he's not ready to settle down yet. He’s just letting his wild side have all the fun it can have before getting ready to land.
Conclusion
So there you have it. Hopefully, I've been able to shed some light on the men who go to strip clubs. For all the men out there who do go to the strip clubs, I would like to say keep it up brothers, continue to enjoy and cherish your wild side! And for the ladies out there who worry about your boyfriend going to these places please don’t panic, it’s one thing to look at the menu and another to order from it. Perhaps you should let him go out with his friends there someday, and if he comes back to you that same night then that obviously means he loves you!
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