The Truth About Men Who Go To Strip Clubs

The Truth About Men Who Go To Strip Clubs

As a person who’s has always enjoyed visiting strip clubs since the age of eighteen, I think that like any normal human being out there I have my rights to be offended at the stigmas society has giving us. Yes, “us,” since I’m pretty sure I’m not alone here. It seems like everybody out there fails to see any positivity within us; they think any man out there who enjoys watching women dance around naked are automatically perverts, desperate losers, cheaters, pigs, non-dating material and the list goes on. So, I write this MyTake to hopefully shed some light on whoever reads and possibly change their views towards men who enjoy going to the strips for fun.

The Truth About Men Who Go To Strip Clubs

Anyways, getting to the point, the image above inspired me to write this article and believe me when I tell you that this isn’t the first time I've heard this. In fact, a real stripper once told me this herself before a lap dance. We had a few drinks and got to know each other a little better, she asked me what I like to do for fun and I told her I like playing video games and she told me does as well. From there, she told me that she once worked at Gamestop and that she did not like working there because a lot of the costumers there used to sexually assault her a lot. I was actually amazed and couldn’t believe her but she insisted it was all true, that guys at Gamestop would grab her ass at any given moment yet never once did this happen to her as a stripper.

So by now this should tell you something about us men who go to strip clubs. Yes, we may not be perfect but from the image above and the stripper’s experience I just spoke about, this obviously means we do have a lot positive traits and I am going to tell you about a few right now:

We know our boundaries… What goes on at the strip clubs stays at the strip clubs!

The Truth About Men Who Go To Strip Clubs

This is the main one. Men who visit strips know that what we do at the strips must stay at the strips at all costs, and this is basically the main reason why we go to these places in the first place. Think about it: what man does not desire to be in place where he can see naked sexy women from left to right dancing with pride? Or even have these same sexy women dance on him?

So with that said we men who go to strip clubs are perverts with boundaries:

· We are less likely to assault women sexually.

· we are able to control our sexual impulse a lot better than those who don’t visit the strips.

· We are less likely to sexually objectify women in public.

· We are less likely to be peeping toms.

· We don’t expect our girlfriends/wives to look as hot as the strippers we see.

All this because we know that we have a place where we can do all these things and we know that what goes on in the strip clubs must stay at the strip clubs.

We know the what we want

The Truth About Men Who Go To Strip Clubs

Putting it simply, men who go to strip clubs don’t go there looking for love, commitment, or relationships. We know damn well that strippers are not dating material, so we only go there to have some fun and enjoy ourselves at being the perverts we are. However, this does not mean we treat women outside the strip clubs the same way.

We know the difference between love and lust

The Truth About Men Who Go To Strip Clubs

I’m sorry if I sound like a broken record but again, we men who go to strip clubs know that what goes on at the strip clubs stays at the strip club. Therefore, if a man visits the strip club, it obviously means he's not ready to settle down yet. He’s just letting his wild side have all the fun it can have before getting ready to land.

Conclusion

So there you have it. Hopefully, I've been able to shed some light on the men who go to strip clubs. For all the men out there who do go to the strip clubs, I would like to say keep it up brothers, continue to enjoy and cherish your wild side! And for the ladies out there who worry about your boyfriend going to these places please don’t panic, it’s one thing to look at the menu and another to order from it. Perhaps you should let him go out with his friends there someday, and if he comes back to you that same night then that obviously means he loves you!

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  • "If he comes back to you that same night then that obviously means he loves you"

    LMFAO if he loved me he wouldn't be there period. What kind of sense did that even make to you? You sound like those spineless women with zero self esteem who justify being cheated on because he came back to her that night. Oh please! That means he's a scum bag and doesn't respect you, and is dirty enough to be around some whore and pretend like he cares about you when he comes home again.

    Men and women who attend or work at strip clubs are moral-less and complete utter trash.

    • Harsh but I agree, except for the part about the workers.

    • @SovereignessofVamps Well that's fine, we can agree to disagree but the other parts, that form of thinking seriously needs to be taken care of. I can recall on countless occasions where women would fight for their scum bad boyfriends who cheat on them endlessly and brag about how the other girl was just "a quick nut" and they'll never be like her because he comes to her. That thinking is toxic, and the person setting themselves up to get a disease.

    • well I'm sorry that your mind is this narrow. so narrow that you actually count your boyfriend seeing other members of the opposite sex as "cheating" talk about being "spineless." and perhaps you are the one with zero self esteem since you have the need to label others who don't share the same views as you "utte trash" OTFRL!

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  • i see women bashing strip clubs and porn and objectifying women
    yet when women do it like jennifer lopez in its fine and empowering women
    and the bigger issue they praise 50 shades of grey like its the new gone with wind novel

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=c4oiEhf9M04
    • ^^True.

    • Not all women like 50 Shades of Gray. A lot of us were like, WTF? Also, it's a sad idea that some "new feminists" think that taking off clothes and making money is empowering. They don't realize that because things are unequal, that's how strip clubs and brothels boomed. It's insane. Thank you very much for bringing attention to that!!!

    • @Decora feminist just want to watch the world burn

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  • Im kind of surprised that all the women are so against strip clubs and strippers.
    I've gone to strip clubs, and it seems like there are many many other woman there to watch these dancers.
    Personally, I have no problem with the guy dating or involved with going to a strip club. I don't think any less of him because he chooses to look at other women on a pole, he's going to look at other women anyways. If he gets a lap dance, who cares. he's not gonna screw her. Her touching him or rubbing up against him really doesn't bother me. he's going to end up in my bed so what's the big deal?

    • Would you still go if you were dating someone too?

    • thank you, something positive for once! but yea I can't believe how insecure and inferior people here are nowadays

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  • This is an interesting view point, My girl is actually a stripper and she hates it, guys say the most fucked up shit to her, the one you talked to must have had better luck. However this is nothing wrong with dating a stripper if you're not a jealous asshat, its just a job that pays better than gamestop.

    • Thank you for at least being honest about her experiences.

  • Strip clubs are fine even in relationships in my case, especially if I can tag along ahah, strippers aren't prostitutes so its not like they're sleeping with the guy.

    I guess strip clubs just make regular women insecure because most strippers have really nice bodies so they think the men are going to expect that from other women as well, its the same issue with porn really. Any "rational" man knows that their girlfriend/wife isn't a porn star or stripper or prostitute so they have no expectations of them to act like that.

    • amen sister, that is exactly what I think!

    • Agreed I honestly couldn't give a damn, so long as it's not behind my back. If he said to me this Friday I'm going out to a strip club with my buddies, then sure. But if he hid it from me, and then was being really suspicious about it I'd get worried and feel suspicious too. Also if he can go to them, then I should be allowed to as well otherwise he's a hypocrite.

    • I think it's the "insecure" women who let guys go to strip clubs. Those women don't think they're good enough to have him unless she shares him. Confident women who know themselves are the ones strong enough to reject guys who want to cheat/be around other women.

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  • Dude strippers have sex for $. That's how they make a lot, of, it. Chill. I make $ not exploiting myself. And strip clubs men can let their fantasies play out

    • and your point is?

    • Lol. Lol

    • what woman doesn't have sex for $ nowadays?

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  • "what man does not desire to be in place where he can see naked sexy women from left to right dancing with pride"

    I don't. I have zero desire to go to a strip club.

    You often hear about strippers being exploited, but it's the other way around. It's the strippers who are exploiting the men. They are exploiting men's weakness to get their money, and lots of it.

    • Boohoo! Like women who aren't strippers don't do the same.

  • So why do you think it is that sex industries be it stripping or prostitution are so incredibly prone to abuse?

    • A lot of that is lack of over site. With little to no regulation there is lots of room for opportunistic exploitation.

    • I never said that, so I have no idea what you're talking about

    • @Anpu23 not really. I'm from a country in which prostitution is legal and prostitutes get health care and regular controls and all that stuff and yet overall the industry is a nightmare. And stripping is not really illegal anywhere in the western world and yet strippers are very prone to abuse, despite controls. And I mean there aren't controls in my job and no regulation beyond what strippers and prostitutes also get. And yet it's not at all prone to abuse. So no unless you have something to support that statement I don't think lack of oversight is an issue. There's little oversight in most jobs

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  • I'm not gonna judge you, just like I don't judge the strippers. It's a good way to earn money and a good way to spend it.

  • So not allowing another woman to touch my man in a sexual way makes me insecure? I can follow that line of thinking... Well then the next guy I think is really attractive maybe I should just allow him to feel me up. I mean there is really nothing wrong with finding the opposite sex attractive and allowing them to feel you up even though you are in a relationship. I mean every guy loves that his girl allow men to feel her up whenever they want. He finds that sex. He knows she is open. He will marry that girl and they will have children someday. Right...

    • I'll be honest, I'm a little confused

    • Men go to strip clubs to look at women and to allow those women to touch on them (a. k. a. lap dance) ?

    • yea and your point is?

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  • I was with you until your list of unproven facts. That only applies to you, not all men.

    • Did I say "all men?"

    • No,, but your generalisation statement opening implied. If you meant only you, you should have said "The Truth About This Man And Strip Clubs". You clearly implied more than you so soz bab, nowhere did you imply this was just yours, you were making it out to be fact and hoped nobody would cotton on.

    • exactly I said "men who go to strip clubs" since not all men in the world go to strip clubs I was obviously implying to all men in the world smarty pants

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  • I'm generalizing of course, but the girls don't seem to enjoy it but only do it because it pays them a wage they can't make with their clothes on. I'm positive most would jump ship at a "real" job with their clothes on and self respect if they could get the same pay, or really close to it.
    If you are in a club or bar and hitting on a girl and she's obviously not into you, you back off. But in a strip club you don't care because you are throwing cash at her so you both hide her indifference so she can make rent and you can feel loved. It's not healthy on any level actually.

    • Thank you!!!

  • Meh, so what you are saying is men who go to strip clubs ARE depraved perverts, they just know how to hide it outside of the strip clubs. Congratulations?

    • yea we know our boundaries, what's so wrong about that? or do you prefer to be around typical perverts who are desperate enough to whistle at you, sexually harass you, or sexually assault you out in public?

    • Lol. I'm sure those guys go to strip clubs as well. I was really hoping to learn something from your take about the allure of strip clubs.

    • I think he means that guys that go to strip clubs sometimes understand what they want and need and don't bother normal women for it because they go to a paying establishment Vs a guy who doesn't well then what happens? Yea he's going to hit on women, pretend to like em and probably try to sleep with them. This type of guys doesn't like strip clubs. He wants real action

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  • I personally have no problem with men who go to strip club. I still see him the same as other men. What is the difference between them and men who jerk off to porn? They have money and usually extrovert group of men who are confident and know what they want. I don't do casual sex but I never feel threatened by those stripers.

    • thank you! sure wish more people could be as open minded as you

    • Yeah I find interesting how some women think it is better for the guys to sleep around with promiscuous women rather than a prostitute. Some call these men desperate but to me men who sleep with promiscuous women are more desperate. A man needs to have money to go to strip clubs and there is no guarantee that he will end up sleeping with any of the stripers. Men with promiscuous women? They just need to bring a piece of condom and a hard dick..

    • I agree all the way except for the... "They just need to bring a piece of condom and a hard dick.. " part. not to be sexist or anything but I really doubt any woman out there promiscuous or not fucks for free. the guys who fetch these types of sluts at bars, clubs, or wherever they find them at obviously pay for them one way or another either by buying them drinks, spending gas on them, taking them out to restaurants, buying them gifts, letting them stay at their house one night for free and the list goes on and on. and if they aren't paying these sluts with money they are obviously paying them with favors or the status that these sluts are desperately craving for. so yea from my point of view the guy who fucks promiscuous women is still the loser in this case because he is paying for women who are already used and lets not forget that there is always a major possibility that he will not get what he paid for in return.

  • I think men that go are just pathetic. I am 48 and have never been, nor will. My best friend tried to get me to go for my bachelor party. Why? Pay a cover charge, pay too much for beer, then have to tip women I can't touch? I don't see anything that is remotely interesting about it. I can see a naked woman at home, that I can touch and fuck. I can drink a 6 pack for the cost of 1 beer at a strip club. And I don't have to sit in a bunch of nasty smoke, next to nasty gross morons. uggg no thanks.

    • Lmao you sound 78

  • Personally I never been to a strip club or been interested in going, my ex for some reason liked strip clubs, in either case people can do whatever they wanna do, no biggie. And dosent surprise me that oddly enough strippers might get more respect at strip clubs than other places.

  • We are less likely to assault women sexually.

    · we are able to control our sexual impulse a lot better than those who don’t visit the strips.

    · We are less likely to sexually objectify women in public.

    · We are less likely to be peeping toms.

    This right here is why you have third wave feminism and femanazis. You really can't control yourself? Do you lack self control?
    have you ever known strippers? Well paid strippers? They get pimped out. They always come from some kind of abusive background or have bad mental health.
    Seriously get to know them.

    • well that's not my problem. like I said when I go there I just want to have a good time and see what I can't see out in the real world. and wth does lack of control come from?

    • Um honey, you said we are less likely to assault women. You need to go to a strip club in order not ti assault women is disgusting

    • never once did I said that smarty pants, stop trying to flip the script around! all I said was that we know our boundaries both in and out of the strip club and the fact that numerous of strippers have confess to me that they've never bee sexually assaulted while working at the strips compare to out in the real world pretty much speaks for itself

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  • I can't take men who go to prostitutes and strip clubs seriously :/ sorry

    • As well as women who watch Magic Mike

    • what makes the ones that go pick up sluts at bars, nightclubs, lounges, etc any different?

    • @mrsingle who's that?

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  • But if you're in a relationship how do you feel the strippers up? Otherwise may as well watch porn. If my guy went to a strip club I would nvr believe he wasn't feeling them up at least.

    • You'll get thrown out of the place if you lay one finger on them.

    • @MrMysteryMan Where do you go? One of those really high class places sure, but reg strip clubs let you feel them up. I've heard stories already lol

    • Well I live in Canada so it might be different here. But, it is a cardinal rule, unless the stripper lets you, you can not touch the girls.

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  • I don't really have a problem with it unless the person in question is going to the strip club while in a relationship.

    • Uhm, why does that matter? A strip club is not a brothel. I've never gone to a strip club and gotten laid.

    • @Kiran04 you're appreciating other women in a sexual nature.

    • Yes, but I can do that outside of a strip club too. I can do that walking down the street, looking at billboard ads, or surfing the web. I don't become asexual because I'm dating someone. If other women have sex appeal, I notice.

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  • For what it is worth, I do not think that men who frequent strip clubs and brothels are any worse than promiscuous women who sleep around like sluts. Thus in that regard, I agree with you that you should be free from judgment. No woman who has slept with multiple men outside of marriage is in any position to pass judgment on you. However, I pass judgment upon the both of you and believe that I am in a position to do so because I am a virgin. To me the problem is that while all of us may desire casual sex and nudity from time to time, it does not make it the right thing to do. We are reasonable creatures who should ideally strive to pursue the higher things in life, which I would consider marriage and love for sex. To me sex outside of the context of love and marriage is inherently lower and degrading. We do not always meet the ideal, granted, but we should still try to strive for it. Furthermore, even if consent is involved, the sex industry is still objectifying toward women. No man would want his daughter to be a stripper, therefore every man knows deep down that there is something wrong with it. Again, I would say the same thing about promiscuous women and their own insecurities. I think the reason they are so offended by men who desire virgins is because they know deep down that being a slut is wrong.

    • While I don't personally agree with everything you said, I want to thank you for standing up for marriage and mutual respect. I would like to point out that strip clubs and brothels are different than casual sex because casual sex is between two "equal" adults. Strip clubs and brothels represent "dominance" over "lesser" people. It's about power and escapism, sadly. That's the problem with them. : (

  • Ummm why aren't women in strip clubs aren't dating marerials? u said it yourself, there is no love involved, women who work there don't fall in love with men, it's just a fucking job, people treat strippers as if the ones who visit them are better.

    • Dating material more like wife material...

    • @singlebee yeah like you're gonna marry one lol

    • Ofcourse not.. I was saying some guys may just date her but not marry her 😁

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