I'm not saying it's easy, or that guys are the only ones who should be understood, but what I am saying is that if you take the time to be patient, let them be themselves, and learn about how they think you can actually make some of the greatest friendships/relationships you could ever have! They honestly have the best intentions and when they care for someone they'll go above and beyond to do whatever they can for them, in whatever way they can. Some things aren't easy for them to say. Sometimes they don't tell you everything you want to hear. It's okay, that's normal. Just be patient with them.
Have a healthy balance of when to put pressure on them, but also when to just love them and let them be. Not every guy will handle things perfectly, or even be the right person for you. But do us women a favor and do your best to not overreact, and try to think things through logically. If you want to say something say it the best way you can! If you want them to understand you try to say it in the most simplistic and blunt way possible, they'll understand you easier that way lol. But...That's just my take on things :).
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" Just be patient with them" - ".. say it in the most simplistic and blunt way possible, ... "
while you do have some points, there is a logic flaw, either you say what you want blunt and straight forward, then it doesn't take time and you don't need to be patient or you need to make things much more complicated than these actually are, then you need to be patient, but that's not blunt.
What really pisses me off, is the underlying tone. You are a woman not a goddess, you are at my level so I don't need your approval.
"Not every guy will handle things perfectly, or even be the right person for you" - oh really? but every woman will instinctively handle everything perfect and be naturally the "right" person?
How do you call it, when people get decribed as dumb ("most simplistic and blunt") because of a genetic fact? if it is the skin color, that is racism, but here it is the "Y" chromosome, then it is sexism, isn't it?
i see what you mean...
Definitely!
Good mytake!