This Is What Goes Through A Guy's Mind When He's Falling In Love

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Girls often wonder what goes through a guy's mind when he's falling in love with a girl, here's the answer spoken by a guy himself. GaG guys, don't forget to tell us if it is true. 💘

This Is What Goes Through A Guy's Mind When He's Falling In Love

"We dream, we dream of the future with that one person. Every second of every day, that girl will be in our head no matter how hard we try to get them out. We find ourselves daydreaming about them. Girls may think it's only them that smile for no reason or get butterflies. No, not at all. We get the same feeling as girls do. Well, the good guys do. There are guys who fall too hard and too fast because we love that feeling of finally having a good girl. We fall too hard because we need reassurance that they won't leave us and that they will always be there. Girls need to learn that when a guy tries his hardest to keep you in his life, you mean a little more to him than anyone else.

We understand that you guys are scared to get hurt but in all honesty, we are as scared as you guys are - at least I am. We could fall for anyone who treats us special, but we want to be assured that at the end of the day, we fall for a girl who treats us as her life. You know some guys find girls that are only beautiful on the outside and then there are guys who find girls that are only beautiful from inside. But then, only a couple of guys can get lucky and find a girl who is beautiful inside and out. We are scared for that one to get away. You may assume that the only thing we think about is sex. But it is nowhere even near that. We think of what is best for you guys and we are scared. We think of anything and everything to please you.

It is pretty simple, really. Our mind goes from thinking that we are all logical and smart to basically 'asdfghkrckteqdkjfdry', even the smartest person on earth will be as dumb as the next guy when he is in love. It kind of sneaks up to you. When you get to see her, everything's more defined. It is like when I put glasses for the first time after putting it off for years. I was like 'Holy Hera, everything is in Hi-Def!'. Being with that particular girl is like that. The colours are more vibrant, the edges of the objects crisper. Nothing sucks.

When she is gone, all of a sudden you find yourself wanting to see her more - and you don't really know or understand why. It is just something about her...something about her makes you smile. You talk to her as much as you can, or try to anyways. You send her tweets or comments on her Facebook posts just so you'd have this tangible connection. Waiting for someone to come online is a painful and sometimes a heartbreaking thing - You have no idea how true that is.

This Is What Goes Through A Guy's Mind When He's Falling In Love

And even though you try to talk to her all the time, there are moments when you are just at a loss of words. It is because she's gorgeous, in more ways than one, and you literally lose every thought in your mind. The only thing going through a guy's mind at that time is 'Wow, this girl...is just wow...' And he wants to tell her that.

You want to tell her that, but something is holding you back. It is not the right time or you might scare her off. Sometimes these fears are irrational, but sometimes we have reasons for thinking so. The girl could have been hurt in the past by a guy and you don't want to be associated with him by a stereotype, or the girl might be doing something that makes us think she's not interested, or maybe the girl is giving off a vibe that you are creeping her out - something along with these lines.

Anyway, as you come up with more and more convoluted ways to talk to her, time passes by. Days, weeks, months. No matter how long it takes, you find it strange when a day passes by without you talking to her. She is on your mind all the damn time. A girl is kind of like an addiction. Not in a bad way, but once one catches your attention, you can never get enough of her. You want more, you want to see her more, you want to hold her more, and above all else, you want her to smile more... :)

Because all of these things, they give you a rush you just can't ever replace. You have fallen for her".

This Is What Goes Through A Guy's Mind When He's Falling In Love

This Is What Goes Through A Guy's Mind When He's Falling In Love
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