This Is For Women Who Assume All Men Are The Same!

[Anonymous]

You can't use the word "all" while talking about a group of people. Because people are different. You may come across with bad people till now who are belong to a specific group but that doesn't make the others who are belong to that group bad too. You don't know them yet. People are not the same, even they are belong to the same group.

They all cheat

Cheating is a personal decision. Just because your boyfriend cheated on you, you can't say that they cheat all. Even you came across with the guys who cheated on you till now, you still can't say that. You should try them all to be able to say such a thing.

Some men will never cheat no matter how bad it is; others will cheat no matter how good it is.

Only cheaters cheat. And finding the right person is up to you. If you are always being cheated by guys, then you are falling for the same type of guys.

They think about sex 24/7

We all know that common stereotype that men think about sex 24/7. But it is not true. They may be thinking about it more than women but that doesn't mean that the only thing on their mind is sex! They think about other things too just like us.

If he loves you, you will jealous of you

Jealousy is the fear of losing someone that you love. And the main reason behind that fear is lack of self confidence. Some men may think that they are not good enough for their partner and think that she will dump him for someone better.

And every time she talks to another guy or smiles to him, he will feel insecure. And insecurity will lead to jealousy.

Some people think that their partner doesn't love them just because he doesn't get jealous. Jeaousy doesn't define love.

They can't cook

Another stereotype about men. Thinking that most cooks are men, they are even talented on it.

[Anonymous]

Misandry is tolerable in western society, so it's great to see articles and posts that defend and praise men rather than bash and exclude them like you commonly do see online and in the media. Unfortunately, it's perfectly acceptable for women to stereotype and discriminate against us, but nobody can even criticize them as a male, otherwise it's sexism and misogyny.

So many people here will think that men do not even deserve this post by claiming that you're just a male with a female account. Regardless of your actual identity, the fact that anybody had to post this goes to indicate that men are often not given enough (or any) credit. and are almost always to blame for anything that happens.

In my experience, I actually meet plenty of women who think about sex seemingly a lot more often than men do, so I don't get how all men are "horn dogs." I know at least three girls who admitted that they would enjoy sex literally every hour of the day, and I'm sure there are plenty of others who are just not as vocal about their desires since it still might be discouraged in their culture.

[Jackblue]

I think you watch too much tv.

[Tony1974]

Generalizations all suck!

See what i did there? ;)

To you point; check out this enlightening video. I love to see the shattering of preconceived notions.

https://www.youtube.com/embed/OQ2fREo3Tjc

[paleweirdo]

This is great 👍🏻 I don't like it either, I also don't like it when it's 'all girls..' too
I SUCK at cooking! My boyfriend is the chef in our relationship. He's an awesome cook.

Personally I think for either gender to think like that, they either have to be rather dumb or extremely unlucky. There's 7 billion of us, and until you've been with every single available person, you can't make that assumption :-)

[PrincessPie]

They're most definitely not the same.. i've been with guys who couldn't be more different from each other.

[PrincessPie]

thank you :)

[FatherJack]

The " media " and also male negative feminist propaganda have had an effect on the female psyche , that is undeniable , men are universally depicted as useless , worthless , perverted, sex crazed morons... that needs a woman to run his life for him !!

I'm a FT working single dad...& have encountered a lot of sexism from women , that have assumed I am a sex predator / unfit parent... simply for the " crime " of being born male. Even my daughter at age 8 stated.." Why are boys /men made to look stupid & gross all the time & girls never are? " Thank you for a great take !!

[ObscuredBeyond]

Jealousy is fairly easy for me to suppress... until she starts hugging him a lot, acting cold and uninterested toward me but always smiling toward him, even when I'm right there and can see it, when she always has an excuse for me and makes exceptions for him, and when she'll even hold hands with him but will hesitate to hold my hand. Especially when her story to me changes almost 180 degrees within a mere 5 hours.

If I feel I'm being conned somehow, then I go into Batman mode to dig up the truth. And I always confront when I catch her in a great big lie. Or, if I get the chance, I walk up to guy #2 and warn him about her charades - right in front of her. Make sure she is seen as the villain.

If I can't have her sincere heart because there is no sincerity in her, then I will at least make sure no man can be played for a fool by her ever again.

[cth96190]

I have moved past caring what women think of men in general, or me in particular.
When I did ask that question, I found:
1. All sex is rape. - Andrea Dworkin
2. Kill all men. - Valerie Solanis
3. A woman needs a man like a fish needs a bicycle. - Gloria Steinem
Then there were the tens of millions of women who retweeted #killallmen and #maletears, among other hateful things.
The above confirmed my experience with females at school, at university, in the workplace and socially.
MGTOW monk

[naturallywonderful]

Have you ever been on misogynistic websites like return of the kings? I could easily post several of their quotes on essentially how unintelligent and worthless women are then gladly make them apply to men as a whole. However, I won't. Why? Because I recognize that they are a tiny minority and aren't indicative of the general male population. I ask you do the same

[cth96190]

@naturallywonderful
Disregarding the words of batshit insane women, such as Dworkin and Solanis, would not take away my personal experience, which supported everything that I read from the 'kill all men' and 'male tears' Feminists.
During my life I have met three women who I have known to be good people. One was my mother, the others were my two grandmothers.

[fueledbythc]

"They may be thinking about it more than women"

I call bullshit on that 100%. On average girls think about sex more than men. Its just the men who do think about sex 24/7 are that aggressive and give all men that stereotype while women hide ther horniness in public.

[Unit1]

😍😍😍😍😍 Good post, lady!

We are not all the same.
In fact the women should take a reality check of their dating targets.
But then again, shit always happens. One can pick itself up from the ground, learn from it and move on or dwell in eternal bitterness.

[Gonetowardthewind]

If a girl ever says "all men are..." I'll just reply and say "who told you to try them all?"

[yaanis]

Or you really have tried a lot of them, with accent on a lot of them xD

[FatherJack]

I wouldn't even bother with a reply... I'll be very swiftly gone !!

[Anonymous]

Thanks for this take. As a man I appreciate it since it does seem a lot of women think all guys are the same. It's not even fair to say "not all men" because those stereotypes are untrue for MOST men.

Regarding the last one, I know FAR more men who can cook than women. Not saying that's good or bad, just a fact.

[spoonman2014]

Girls who think like this only focus one type of guy. You are doing the same thing over and over again expecting change. I realized this when I was young and dumb, I dated a girl and her friends said I was terrible for her. I never did anything wrong, but after we broke up they wanted me around to be friends and I saw these girls get into shitty relationships come back crying about how all men are the same...

[John_Doesnt]

I think about video games 23/7, the other hour is for women.

[MrMysteryMan]

Generalizing and assumptions are the main problem in communication between the sexes.

[ThisAndThat]

The real story goes, all the type of men they're attracted to, are the same.

[navychick2006]

Same could be said about men too. Good women get overlooked all the time for bitchy, skanky women who treat men like trash and then get lumped into the same category. I sometimes think people in general enjoy being treated like crap unfortunately, which makes it hard for the rest of us 🙁

[ThisAndThat]

@navychick2006 I don't disagree. However you could take to men that looked identical to each other. One a nice guy the other a a**hole. And the majority of women will pick the a**hole every time.

[navychick2006]

And do the exact same thing with two women who look alike and the guys will still choose the bitch. Pot, kettle. They're both the same color. People want what they know they shouldn't have rather than what's good for them.

[lovelyhoneybones]

All men are the same. Ha!

[Wwwyzzerdd]

All women are the same. Ha!

[lovelyhoneybones]

@Wwwyzzerdd It was for satirical purposes. Ha!

[Wwwyzzerdd]

Same here

[LadyTerror]

All humans are the same.

[Wwwyzzerdd]

By that logic you are the same as Rupaul or Dog the Bounty Hunter.

[LadyTerror]

@Wwwyzzerdd of course I am! And so is everyone

[Wwwyzzerdd]

I am terrified that you agree with that last statement.